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Am I abnormally tight? Please help!!! anyone?

I can only fit 1 finger in, it doesn't feel too tight but if I put 2 fingers in, I can just about manage that but it stretches and well I can only get the tip of two in but not all the way like I can with one! but perhaps just the angle? because I fit the end of a small-medium sized brush in (maybe just smaller than an the handle of an electric tooth brush? I finger my self a lot and I've been fingered quite roughly before, my ex and I finally tried to have sex and it hurt so bad? like the tip won't even go in, and I felt something rip so i told him to stop, but it wasn't the vagina that was hurting it was the perineum? and it bled! it hurt to pee... I think it's called that, the skin between the vagina and the arse hole. and it hurt so much! like is my vagina abnormally tight? I just turned 17 and I don't know just the top of the vagina hole and where the perineum starts just seems so close? there's no elasticity? it just seems impossible to be able to fit a penis in without completely ripping open? also I don't know but I'm rather short, 5'2 so petite... no sure if that has anything to do with it? (only thought it was necessary to say as it can cause implications at birth). I use tampons with no problem and I mean I don't think I have a hymen as I finger my self a lot and things but I feel like the hole is honestly too small just my vagina in general because the perinium just is so tight and close to the vagina hole, there's no space? is this normal? please help I really want to have sex... any tips? should I see a doctor?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • At a meantime some men complain about their abnormally small penises. For sure there is someone who has the size of penis that fits in perfectly. You just have to find the really small one or do you think that even micropenises would be too big? And no, your height has nothing to do with it.

    Probably good to see a doctor or talk to someone who is specialists in these matters if nothing else helps. It also might be that your age has something to do with it, might get better in time.

  • The question is, have you been to see a gynecologist? That might well be a good idea because they could instantly put your fears to rest and tell you whether there are any physical issues down there. The rest of us would merely be speculating.

    I mean, it's not unusual for a girl to be tight but to have tears in your perineum is not particularly normal unless the penetration was particularly rough or the object was particularly big.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly, I think you're just too stressed. I had that problem as well. Although, I couldn't even get tampons in because I wasn't relaxed and I kept trying to jam them in. I was always so tense with my first boyfriend and even when I tried with dildos. Finally, I had to learn to relax. It wasn't until I was twenty-one until I figured it out unfortunately.

  • you should try relaxing with lots of clitoris play before trying 2 fingers , trust me when i say this coz I've been fisted.. if you're not warmed up or relaxed your vagina wint stretch and you will get sore

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  • I think that your not relaxing enough and your stressing to much to open up. I do suggest talking to your doctor about it. It might be that you just still growing down there.

  • I'd love to find out in person

  • Meet a specialized Doctor. Not just anyhow doctor.

  • What is your religious/ethnic background?

    • why does religion have to do with this lol

  • My first ever girlfriend was like that. When we had sex she couldn't fit more than the tip in fkr the first few times, which I was fine with. We just went on with that until she was fine, after a while we were having sex as rough as we wanted and for as long as we wanted and I'm not exactly on the small side.

    Sadly it's just a type of pain you have to push through at first, but it'll be worth it.

  • Are you feeling anxious when it comes to sex and/or penetration?

  • What country are you from?

  • Lemme stick my tongue in it

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  • i'd have to see pics first ;)

  • I can help loosen you up

    • thanks :/

  • Perhaps you should see a doctor/ talk to your mum. Because it is a little worrying

    • You agree on where I'm coming from with my answer?

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