Can't feel anything anymore when I kiss my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So, I've been dating this girl for 3 months now and we're both in 8th grade. And don't give me a lecture of how we're too young to date. In the beginning when we started kissing, it used to turn me on and make me feel really happy, but now when we do kiss, I just don't feel anything at all. I really do care about her and all that, but I just don't feel anything when I kiss her anymore.
What happened?

[samhradh_leannan]

It sounds like the spark in your relationship is starting to die. Keep in mind that it's normal for this to happen, up to a point. You might get an instant boner from one little kiss at the beginning of a new relationship, but nothing feels new forever, and it's natural for some of the excitement to fade once you've been with someone for a while. But if you're right for each other, you should still enjoy kissing, even if your physical reactions aren't as extreme anymore. If you truly don't feel anything when you kiss, it's a good sign that your relationship isn't meant to be, especially since you're so young and new to dating. At your age you shouldn't have to put tons of work into a relationship to make it feel exciting.

[Irishgirl15]

honestly take that as a sign that the magic is gone and she's not the one. I would let her down gently and who knows maybe she felt the same but let her know why. nothing breaks a girls heart worse then when a guy dumps her and doesn't give her a sliver of a reason as to why that is. tbh it will be better for the both of you in the long run and although she may be upset for a while she will come around and maybe be friends after some time. hope things turn out well for you 2

[lovydoey]

Lol dating is healthy, it gives experience and is also a way to know yourself and ur partner. So I don't think 8th grade is young. But maybe the reason the kiss isn't there anymore because maybe is routine. Like the more u are with a person the less excited u get to see them. I don't know, correct me of I'm wrong. But that's my opinion

[Peskyn3gr0]

It might be over buddy, I was dating a girl for a couple of months recently. She was nice, but every time I kissed her I didn't feel anything.

[Asker]

I don't want to break her heart though. She's already said she loves me and has convinced her parents to go to the same high school as me.

[Peskyn3gr0]

Breaking someone's heart is very difficult, I know you probably feel an immense sense of guilt, I went through this exact same thing only a couple of months ago. But you don't want to stay in a relationship you're not happy in, the longer you stay in, the more you're going to hurt her when you eventually can't take anymore of it.

[Asker]

The thing is, I am happy, but I just don't feel the same when I kiss her anymore. I don't feel anything

[Peskyn3gr0]

Well, ultimately you're going to have to make that decision. I dated a girl I liked because I liked her personality but felt nothing when we kissed. For me personally, It began to be a burden for me to see her, I'm not projecting any of that onto you, but you have to make up your mind. Don't feel guilt tripped because her parents decided she's going to your high school.

[TheDevilInside]

you're too young

[Anonymous]

Lack of chemistry