How do you tell if you're sexually incompatible with someone?

I'm not very experienced sexually but I think my boyfriend and I may be incompatible
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The incompatibility could be in differing sex drives or it could be in differing sexual wants and needs. You might want sex three times a week, he might want it once a week. You might be like affection, he might like to dominate. You might hate oral, he might find it a necessity. There are many incompatibilities in sex just as there are in the overall relationship dynamic. Some things you can compromise on and overcome, other things are deal breakers. If he is not making you happy in the bedroom then there is an incompatibility or there is a lack of communication.

  • It's very easy to tell. One will want more sex or a greater variety of sex than the other to the point where one or the other or both are unhappy or dissatisfied.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it'd be more like if you notice that you're not sexually compatible, so basically wanting nothing more than sex when you're together and in circumstances that would allow for it, you can maybe start suspecting that you're not fully sexually compatible. If you were, you'd stop at nothing for both of you to get your sexual 'fix' so... if you're doubting whether or not you have it, that's a bit worrisome in my opinion.

  • It could be bad chemistry, that your pheromones are not compatable.

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  • When she says "You want it too much."

  • You just feel it with that person, like the urge and emotion, it'll feel right

  • One of the best ways to tell is that one or both are also having sex with someone else.

    • Haha

  • If you don't find him physically attractive then maybe look for someone else.

  • If you are not getting orgasms after several efforts of communication, it's game over.

    • Yeah I guess this makes sense

  • Rule 1: his pens must fit into your three main sex holes. If not then you aren't compatible
    Rule 2: you must use your three main sex holes.
    Rule 3: ...

    • Women only have one "main sex hole". Take an anatomy lesson.

    • @samhradh_leannan don't worry no one will try to put there pens in you

  • on what basis have you came to that point

  • ıf u don feel pleasure

  • Well when one of you is very open about it and likes to do different things and the other one just thinks intercourse is enough