So during doggy style (last night) my boyfriend was REALLY getting into it and his d*** 'accidentally' slipped in my ass. Well it didn't slip right...
If it wasn't an accident I'm breaking up with him. I like him a lot but seriously I feel like that's practically rape.
Well I talked to him and he swears on his grandmothers grave it wasn't intentional...
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, it can happen accidentally. If it was dark or slightly dark and a guy is in that mode or hump hump hump... it can be very easy to mis-align and penetrate in the wrong area. Once a guy does hit the wrong or should I say, "Unintended" area such as the anus, it might not cross your mind at first. Perhaps, we might just think that the for whatever reason vaginal penetration as become difficult such as a drier labia as folded inward.
Sometimes during vaginal intercourse I like to pull it all the way out, without hand guided insertion, I like to drive it back in as deep as possible. Once in awhile, I might miss. Although, if it does hit a wet anus that is lubed from her natural juice, it can sometimes go in. Mainly because she is already very relaxed and not expecting it. Although, if no anal intercourse has been had before, I'll be able to tell and stop. (Most of the time)
You should give him the benefit of the doubt and believe this could have been a mistake. I have no problem having anal sex if I want it so I know that sometimes it does happen by mistake and she's not going to think I'm just trying to play dumb about it.
What Guys Said 7
Yeah... it's very possible it was a mistake if it was lubed up/wet enough. The two holes ARE pretty damn close to each other if you aren't paying attention/have your eyes closed in pleasure.
Definitely possible that it was an accident. My girlfriend was on top about a week ago, doing all of the work. Se went up, I slipped out, and when she came down, guess what happened?
Had I been the one in control, I would have been the one blamed. However, I know there are people out that that will do it intentionally, then pretend it was an accident.
Sounds like it was intentional if his first reaction was to apoligize when he didn't stop pushing.
I wonder how everything is going now 8 months later. I myself don't think it was an accident at all and I actually don't think you even believe it was an accident either. Point blank and straight to the point, if you have been only dating him for 2 months at the time of this incident and he had already been sticking his finger in your butt previously (several times) without you expressing that it is something you don't care for; then he had been thinking and wanting to stick his d*** in there for a while and was just waiting for the opportunity to try. What I would suggest to you in the future is to express yourself or you are going to find yourself in many more situations as such and this advise is not just for your sexual encounters. In life, express yourself or you will continually find people trying and taking advantage of you.
Old School D.
Well they are pretty close but I'm pretty sure that when he felt that much resistance he knew what he was doing.
What Girls Said 4
I have heard of many accidents like this.. Don't be so hard on him try talking to him about it and tell him how uncomfortable it was for you .. Why don't you try different safer positions?
i don't think it was intentional at all.. It has happened to me before.. it feels like somebody is pushing a knife up your ass.. I know it is soooo sore, and you feel in shock and stuff afterwards.. but you really think you should forgive him.. you can just tell him that he needs to be more careful and that it can't happen again because it is too painful.. but you should also not be so totally against it either.. going anal is really intense, but if you open yourself up to it, it can really be a very very satisfying for both.. the health problems are nothing to be concerend over.. try it!
It was an accident it used to happen to me all the time when my husband would get too into it. I know it sucks it hurts so damn bad! I cried everytime! It has made me totally scared of certain positions where he is more likely to slip out. I've talked to him about it and obviously he understands and whenever we try those positions he knows he has to go slow and we have a signal where I can signal to him that he's getting too into it and I'm getting scared.
NO ACCIDENT right there. it happens a lot to me and I cry the whole time he does that. sometimes they don't listen till you finally scream and push him away... :( of course he knows its a different hole. because its tighter. he says sorry after but its too late. if he wants to go there, he should lubricate and condition us. :( sad sad sad
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