Reason Why Im Single (Large Puffy Areola) what do u think ^^ ?

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Hey ^^ Im 19 and and this is the reason why i have been saying no to a relationship my whole life.. :') often think that i should accept that i have puffy areola.. The only thing i like about my breast is that i have underboobs and that theyre size B, and round hahah :'))) but I don't know if tge reason why i have puffy aerola might be because im 48 kg... also skinny :/
This breast thing often makes me cry and think i should be single forever and people tells me how someone like me can be single but they don't know the real hurting story :')

But i see girls from
porn with small areola and nipple.. <3 they get normal when they're erecting THANK GOD haha :') But then they're back to normal.. what does guys think? Im so uncomfortable and SHY..

Thank you for replying me <3 It means a lot for real

Lovelinefan · Accepted Answer

Listen... Guys are not THAT picky. And each guy has different taste and preference. Some guys love huge areola, other guys love tiny ones, some guys love big breasts, other guys love small ones. If a guy likes you and is worth having sex with, believe me, the size of your areola will not matter one bit. A boob is a boob, little details like that won't make or break a guys attraction to you.
Besides, you might be the reason a guy who previously thought tiny areola were his preference changes his mind and says "Woah, these things are great!" and becomes a large areola lover.

I used to not like big labia, until I was with a girl with big labia, and ever since then I've been a "bigger = better" guy when it comes to labia.

Quit worrying about your areola and go out and have some fun!

NearlyNapping · Accepted Answer

Oh dear, you need a confidence boost. Please please please don't let this bother you. Guys are not nearly that shallow. Most seriously won't care at all. And the ones who do have a preference, this will be so low on the list of preferences that it might as well not exist. There are like a zillion things that are more important.

That's just sad. Please don't worry about your areola. Hold your head up. You are just fine. Let guys get to know you. It might be a little out of your comfort zone at first, but do it anyway. Give that to yourself, because you deserve it.

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

You haven't been looking at enough porn. There's a whole category of porn with girls just like you in it. I forget what it's called, puffies or something like that. But in any case they don't create categories of porn with girls like you in them unless there are a whole bunch of guys with just that fetish. You're probably going to get a lot of messages from guys now that you have told them about your breasts. Did you mean to do that?

bananajams77 · Accepted Answer

You are normal, my friend. If it still bothers you, visit a gynecologist and they will tell what is normal and what is not normal. I'm pretty sure they are going to tell you there is variety with breast and you are normal. Areola has nothing to do with you relationship status.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

That is NOT why your single. You're single because there is something about your personality, mentality, and character that deters guys away from you.

Leavesbound · Answer

Puffy nipples are the sexiest shape of nipples I have ever seen. I am shocked that yours bothers you. Next women will be complaining about having silky hair or long eye lashes.

SwoopingHawk · Answer

You do realize that the people in porn are literally made of plastic? So much surgery, yuck. Just worry about being someone worth being with.

WalterRadio · Answer

It is not important. You are thinking about the wrong thing.

GingerGuy · Answer

It is not a problem. We love them all. There's even porn sections specifically for large areolas and puffy nipples (fetish). Nothing to be self conscious over. There might be the odd guy, where it's not his preference but he's not going to be repulsed by you or anything. Especially if he truly likes/cares for you. It's so not an issue. Own them!! Don't be shy. Guys will love them!

Chico_brah · Answer

Yeah OP you're totally single because your nipples are a bit too puffy. Strong logic.

fsu19 · Answer

Don't worry about your areolas, I don't know any guy who would be freaked out about them.

Kachatterjee · Answer

You are perfectly all right. Thing beyond your body and look for a soul mate.

watrewks · Answer

Porn offers such an unrealistic image of sex and how our sexual partners should look. Don't compare yourself to that. If you want more info on how porn can be harmful check out Fightthenewdrug. org.

Now I don't think you have anything to worry about. You're over thinking this. If someone ends up not liking you over such a small matter then they're extremely petty and you don't have to waste your time on them. I don't think most people care. I sure wouldn't

FakeName123 · Answer

You have to work on your self-esteem, because independent of what your body looks like - it's the hand life dealt you and you have to make the best out of it

Other than that small or big aerola is a preference thing. Some prefer one, some the other.

kinggeorge007 · Answer

Well, there is at least one single man who likes every kind of body types in this world. I mean there could be men who likes large areolas. You can't predict. I personally don't like it much but it's not a big issue either. I don't know how does it appears but as per your description it shouldn't be a problem.

And you know what, there are men who get attached emotionally than physically. So you don't need to be single for the lifetime. Everybody has a chance. Try being strong and believe in yourself. And come out of your comfort zone. Take a risk and try it out. Nobody will kill you for having large areolas :D So just try it... and don't forget tell me what happened to your little problem when you are succeeded. I'll be happy more than anyone! Cheers!!

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

Yeah, cause every dude has x ray vision and can see through your shirt and see your nipples and are like "dayum, dem areolas doe!"

Shaft50 · Answer

Sounds like you have a fantastic body and great breasts, nipples/areolae included...

Tony1974 · Answer

I think you have a common problem that affects many women: you're too worried about what other people think. There's nothing wrong with being different and who is to say that your best aren't normal? I love big aerolas and according to you they function just fine so there's really no issue. Most guys won't care if they are going to be with you. Contrary to popular belief, most guys aren't that going to care if you love them and they enjoy being with you. Who knows... maybe you next boyfriend loves "puffy" aerolas. I sure don't have a problem with them. I've had a girlfriend int he past who had "puffy" aerolas and she said they were very sensitive. Are yours? Do you get easily aroused when they are caressed? If so then that's a positive in my book. Easy arousal means that you're very sexually stimulated.

Guy_No1 · Answer

I think you sound like you've got lovely breasts, so stop worrying, I bet they look so hot. and you needn't worry

LastNightmare · Answer

I'm sorry to read it but there are guys who will love you madly and want you always. no need to worry, there are people who actually desire your body a lot

Sidp92 · Answer

Stop worrying about it if a guy likes or dislikes you just because of your breasts then you shouldn't be dating him.. you deserve to be liked for who you are and not how your breasts look like