I think the point is more that if you want a relationship with a guy but are sleeping with him after a week, your chances might get smaller that you are going to find a guy who wants a relationship. It's just about finding someone compatible to your desires.
If you want just sex, then sleeping with someone too soon isn't the problem. But if you want a boyfriend most people usually like to get to know each other a little better and see if they want a relationship before they fall into bed. If you go out on a date with a guy and say no to sex until you know him more, he realizes you want more than sex. If he only wants sex he is going to leave. If he wants a relationship he will keep coming back. You are letting him know what you want by your actions. If a guy wants a relationship and you are trying to jump into bed with him, I do know guys that would be turned off by that cause they think you just want to screw around. I know it's shocking to hear that a guy won't dive into bed but some guys do like to take their time.
So if you do want a relationship it's smarter to wait on sex. Cause you are going to meet lots of guys in your life. Some of them just want sex at that moment in their life. If you sleep with a guy just cause you feel a connection, your chances of having slept with a lot of guys and then having them walk off is going to be higher. I know we like to think we will only met 1 or 2 people in our lives who we have connections with or who we love, but dating really is like the reject bin at a store. You have to pick through a bunch of things you don't want to get something good. That's why older people will usually tell you not to sleep with someone too soon. Cause it usually just leads to a lot of regret.
Yes, that is WAY to early. You run the chance of him ending it after that. Men want it, but lose respect for you if you give it up that fast.
It also tells a lot about a guy. Let's just say you starting dating him and are now together for a while. Would you be secure knowing that he is going out with the guys and will be faithful knowing that he is so quick to hook up?
I know you want it and you like him. Trust me...I have gone too fast and it only got me alone. The two times I actually waited, ended up I long term relationshps.
Just don't put yourself in situations that will be hard to avoid sex (his apartment, your apartment, etc)
An old trick my sister used to do is NOT shave...anywhere. That way, you will be TOO embarrassed to hook up.
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Haha that shaving thing is sooo true. And If I've known him for years(haven't been close tho) and were just dating for a week? would that change things? or do you thing its still very early?
yeah its too soon
you REALLY liked him? you barely even know him. you should be more selective of your sexual partners and not just give it up in a week. if you did it with him how many other guys have you done it with in a week? its not like he's your 1st boyfriend so in some guys mind they just assume you're easy. a guy may not dump you especially if the sex is good, but he won't take you as seirously
How do you know if she barely knows him or not, for all we know they were childhood friends. I say do what your heart tells you to do. I've had sex with a girl 4 days after just talking. and we may not be together right now, but we are still great friends to one another. if you just met a week ago, then make him wait, but if you guys have known each other for some time, whether its 6 months or even 10 years, do what your heart tells you to do.
I met him when college started, so like 10 months ago
If there's a connection between the 2 of you, I don't see the issue with sleeping with him if its something you both want.
Guys don't easely think women are sluts unless they put out with every single guy they see/meet, women on the other hand aren't like that.
As for dumping goes; overall speaking no but there's plenty of guys out there who are just after sex and start dumping after they've gotten what they wanted.On the bright side; if that would happen, at least you'd know it early on before actually falling hopelessly in love.
I have had sex 1 hour after meeting someone and waited 3 months to have sex with someone of course this was many moons ago. Neither impacted my relationship. Now if she went and had sex with someone else the next day that would end a relationship. I would never dump someone for sleeping together too soon.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Why? Because once you have sex, it kinda changes our views. Not everyone is like this, but when a guy has sex with a girl early, he pretty much feels he's seen all of you. Subsequently comes the lack of interest and detachment.
Make a guy work for it, learn more about you.
Nope. Most guys I've been with would have left if I didn't put out within a couple of days.
I would not dump you because of it. But I do think that is way to early. my question would be if you like him so much do you like him enough to marry him if the answer is now then don't have sex with him
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