I'll come right out and say that penis size does matter slightly, but as long as a girl can orgasm from it. It definately doesn't have to be massive to please a girl.
I've been with both, and although I love bigger a penis, the guy with the smaller penis gave me more pleasure, simply because he knew what he was doing and I was in love with him.
The guy with the massive **** was just a one night stand that I wasn't really into.
Over all, if I was in love deeply, I would choose the guy with a larger penis. That's because the 3 could never be equals. The guy with the smaller penis would have to do things a little different to please me, and the guy with the bigger penis simply wouldn't have to do as much or work as hard for sex to equally as good.
Of course, "skill" does matter to. That's something what always annoys me: Girls usually say, size doesn't matter, it's how you use it. But what if you're small and don't know how to use it? Finally some one gets it right. It just both matter and when everything else is equal, bigger is better.
What’s your ideal size?
I voted average. I enjoy being able to fit more of him into my mouth. Also, it's nice when he is able to get all of himself into me without leaving the base unattended to.
But in reality, if I really loved and care for the guy, I'm pretty sure that a small one would suffice. Who am I to judge - I'm not perfect and I wouldn't want him to judge me.
My current boyfriend is the biggest I've had and he's by far my favorite. It was like that from day one, so I don't think it's a personality thing. I just love how it feels. He's kind of turned me into a size queen. I love the fact that my hand can't even get all the way around it.
Wow!
So do you appreciate it more for the length or girth? I've ready girth is far more important, so long as the length is average. You mentioned not getting your hand around it, so is it the mental aspects of its size or the actual effect the size has on intercourse? Basically what is it about the bigger one you find more appealing?
Awsome response!
I haven't chosen an answer because you skipped ".5 inches" on each option, my favorite option would be 6.5-7 inches, and width is very important, I don't know why that isn't as popular as length.
Yeah, I couldn't fit more than 5 options to choose, so it was hard to know what length to put in. Most guys are more concerned with length, it's just a guy thing.
Well, having a 8inch penis is all very well, but I mean if you can't feel it, what's the point?
Exactly. guys should be more concerned with width than length. width is what feels best. too long can actually hurt
Hm, I feel compelled to answer here, although this thread is primarily aimed at the girls.
My opinion on this matter is that average is the best, as you can never go wrong with having an average sized penis. No matter the penis size, what's important for a girl is that she gets an orgasm, and you don't even need a penis to do that.
Even though some girls actually like it big, it should be noted that a lot of girls say that they prefer a big penis until they've actually had one. Having sex with a guy with a truly big penis often makes them change their minds.
Speaking for myself, I have an average length, more that average thick penis, and with my current girlfriend, having a thick penis a curse.
Yeah, I just wanted to get a general idea of what girls want, but it does seem for the most part that aside from a few they like average or slightly bigger or smaller.
So basically most women agree that bigger is better, but many went with average anyway, because their current boyfriend is average and it's "enough".
I feel like it's not really targeting the question.
I am a straight guy, but if I were a woman I would prefer a bigger one (as long as it doesn't hurt) just because it looks aesthetically more pleasing than a shriveled shrimp.
Also it's universally regarded as a symbol of masculinity.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Wouldnt matter if they are all equal in all other aspects. Because if the relationship and the sex is fantastic. hell, going with a different size, means you'd want to change it/him. Accept it for the wonder that it would be.
Is the most fantastic sex typically with big guys
Well, that kind of depends. Personally, I like it rough, I like pain and all that, so I'd probably have to go with the big one.
Not all girls are like that, though. Some like an average size because its more comfortable. I have a friend, and the first guy she was ever with was really big, like 9 inches, and now she's with an average sized guy, and she says she likes it a lot better.
Yeah, I know all people are different so some girls would prefer small or large, just wanted to get a general idea, thanks for being honest.
Totally welcome, hun.
Mines average to large. i noticed I was not hitting her end wall inside her vagina if she was 5'11 or taller with a long torso. But she can't control that. But have you guys ever thought why no one really talks about how girls can be too loose. There are vagina tightening exercises for a reason.
Well I'm a 16 year old guy and mine is a little over 6 inches.
Its nice to know that some people really don't mind.
All my mates make out theirs are about 8 inches long though lol.
If a guy is confident with what he's got and it shows in bed, it doesn't matter so much. above 5in is preferable, tho.
How far above Average is ideal? Also are you talking visible length or insertable length?
honestly I'm a size queen, the bigger the better. I've had small guys (4-6 inches) and they just don't really do it for me, so I'd say 8 inches or bigger is good.
Last I checked, 6 inches wasn't small, it was average. *shrug*
Small = <= 6 inches. So I am not the only one who thinks my penis is too small. Thanks for confirming my bias. Seriously, even tho it might sound sarcastic, I do mean it. Drives me crazy that I know it is too small, but when asked, everybody says its fine and average.
How do you know how big it is? Do you measure it?
Xtra Large. Medium sized penises are overrated. Heck, I even want a guy that’s over 8 inches. My ideal penis size for a life partner is 10 inches or over and I’d want him to be very girthy and thick. I don’t believe in the BBC (it’s a myth). I prefer white guys with giant penises (or Latino)
Lol?
"10 inches or over" Are you serious? Do you have any idea how RARE it is for a guy to have a penis that big? Your comment has to be satire.
Grow up pos troll
I would say 8-9 inches
Why...
Another ignorant person
Im average but am still insecure because of my body size, Im quite big so in proportion it looks small even though really im average.
Most woman prefer average penises. They aren't painful, and only gives them pleasure if the man know how to use it properly.
I just love the visual of a large penis more than how it feels. My ex that I dated for a year and a half met when he was the nude art model for my drawing class in college. His flaccid penis hung very large and his testicles hung very low and heavy as well. It was an unexpected turn on for me and seemed to be such a strong symbol of masculinity and dominance to me. The sex was great but part of me felt it was because of the psychology of seeing him naked around the house with his unusually large penis hanging between his legs and the visual of his enormous erections right before we had sex.
Do you have less orgasms with your average ~6 inch dick? Any at all?
This poll doesn't depict the truth. In reality women consider an ideal penis at 8+" in lenght and 6+'' in girth.
i prefer an average penis because my bfs penis is average lol.
and I was reading that it doesn't matter because a woman's vagina is only about 2.8 -3 inches long, so it shouldn't really matter
2.8-3inches? no lol try 4-7 in depth on average
I thought a 6 to 8 inch penis was average
I believe you're wrong, the average is around 5.5 to a little over 6 inches. Even though there's a lot of debate on this if you take a lot of averages from a lot of surveys they generally all say from 5 inches to a little over 6 or so, it's most likely that size.
I see - it just sounded kind of small for average & all the chicks & guys I've talked to in the past told me that average was about 6 to 7 inches. Maybe they are getting smaller these days! lol Thanks for keeping me informed!
im dating an asian and you know how that goes. and the sex is absolutely amazing!
How big is he
So much of sex is more mental than anything. Of course the right girl and the right guy together can have great sex regardless of anything. But all emotions and love stuff aside, most women are only about 4 inches deep. Most of my friends are more concerned with width, but that is only because many men are not taught about a clitoris. Find the clitoris and figure out what to do with it and you are golden regardless of size. Ask your girl where it is and what to do with it. Most girls are too embarrassed to start a conversation about it, but YOU bringing it up and wanting to learn what to do is a major turn on.
Are you american? I always thought it was a hollywood cliche that American men don't know where the clitoris is. Never heard something like that in germany, it's just a non-issue. Everybody knows where it is. We even learn it in elementary school, lol.
this was really hard for me to decide because I haven't really had equal comparison to make a good judgment, but I went with average, because my current boyfriend is about average and he listens to me and because we both care for each other, it makes it that much more intense, and I would love it no matter the size.
Do you orgasm with avg?
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