My ex-girlfriend wants to have sex with me again...should I?

I'm looking for girls' opinions on this... this is pretty detailed, but bare with me... I broke up with my ex-g/f about a year ago, and it was an amicable split. Currently she has a boyfriend, and I'm single. I know her boyfriend, not very well, we go to the same gym. We aren't friends or anything, honestly, I always tried to avoid him. Anyway, this is relevant because about two weeks ago, at the gym, he saw me naked and it was evident to him that I'm a very well endowed man. Apparently, according to my ex g/f's email to me, this really messed with him, because soon after that he started asking my ex what the sex was like with me. She asked him why he wanted to know, and he let it go for a day, but then he brought it up again a few days later, saying he saw me nude at the gym and started demanding honest answers to questions that he didn't really want honest answers to: is my d*** as big as his? how big is his d*** when it's erect? who's d*** feels better? did you enjoy sex with him more than me? etc. She told him his d*** is about the same size when erect (a whopper of a lie), and that he feels better and she likes sex with him more (two more whoppers). But in her email to me, she confessed to me that she was so embarrassed, that she felt pressured into lying to him, that she knew it wasn't like I swung it in his face or anything...and now all she can think of is how much more she always enjoyed having sex with me, how she liked how "full" I felt inside of her, how the orgasms were far more frequent and intense with me, and she said in her email she wants to have a "strictly on the side", strictly sexual" relationship with me. She said the ironic thing was, she didn't even think about my d*** or how I used to make her feel until he brought it up, and now it's all she can think about when they have sex...anyway, she capped her email off by saying "I never realized how much I miss you, how much I miss your beautiful cock, how much I miss sex with my biggest and best lover...you. Can we again?" And now I'm wondering what I should do? Should I do it? Or should I tell her to try to work it out with her boyfriend? Is that even possible for them? Girls out there - what's your opinion of how I should respond to her request?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Honestly her loss she should just work it out with her boyfriend. She can't have her cake and eat it too. Or if you liked the sex with her a lot too maybe it work well for the both of you. Maybe you should move on let the past go find someone who you no is only having sex with you and not some other guy.

    • You are probably right, but it really turns me on knowing she feels this way about me too... ugh. I'm really not sure what I should do.

    • Then I think you do want have sex with her again. So I think you should just do it. What do you have to loose. She looses her boyfriend.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Forward the email to her boyfriend. Let things take their course.

    • Straight up!

    • And I should probably include a pic of my erect penis and tell him she wants this now...right? Come on! I wouldn't betray her like that.

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  • If her man finds out you might get a black-eye

  • tell yes I will nail you again!