I find a lot of good spots that are subtle, are light touches around the inner joint around the elbow, along the jawline, and around the small of her back towards the center. Less subtle is the back of the knee. I also found that use of light touches with the very tips of your fingers in the right places around her face, neck and shoulders in a smooth motion can be very effective if done right, but if done wrong can be a gambit because if you aren't good at it or if she's not remotely interested this will not work for you.
For a good turn on that is pretty much universal, try kissing a girl around under her chin and jawline, her neck and this one sweet spot that is located around the hairline slightly below and behind the earlobe. Light kissing, biting or tugging of the dangly bit on the earlobe are also pretty good on average. While spending so much time around her ear you may find that your breathing can be a real turn on. Keep it in mind.
Anyway that's what's worked for me in the past. Good luck.
I'm checking back on a lot of my old answers like I usually do. I wanted to do a follow up to see if what I told you was at all helpful to you. So did my advice help?
There are many weak spots! Each girl may have their own. I personally love it when they grab me from behind and kiss my neck on the side, and my cheek.
This girl here gives you a broader set of options, the video is about the top 10 women's erougenous zones (that aren't the boobs or the genitals). She looks quite experienced ;)
Go for the side of the neck. I know it makes me melt when he gets the right spot. It's kinda on that tendon that runs behind the ear from the base of the neck to the hairlne. Otherwise the inside of her thigh near her knee might work too?
Neck and back. sometimes boobs. but it’s odd.. I find that I am not turned on like most girls by having boobs touched. I’m super weird
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!When he comes up and kisses the back of my neck I get instantly wet. I also like it when he touches my lower back.
Instantly wet?
really it helps
my neck and this spot kind of by my pelvic bone
Thighs! :D
I like it when he kisses my neck... or touches my thigh...
How can I touch first?
with softly touch?
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