Why do guys watch porn even when they have girlfriends?

I never understood the whole masturbating thing, just not into it. I get that a lot of guys watch porn so it's basically normal, but if you have a girlfriend who you have a great sexual connection with, why would you still watch porn? Does that mean I'm not attractive enough or what? I'm trying not to over analyze it, but I'd like to hear from other guys.
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  • If you ever get into the whole "masturbating thing" you might understand better. For the vast majority of people, their first partner was themselves. And when in a relationship with someone else that relationship continues also. So I wouldn't look at is a case of his needs not being met so much as something separate from the relationship that doesn't (in normal cases) affect it.

    I've read that it's fairly common and usually doesn't affect the quality of relationships. When it does is when it becomes a problem. Porn provides many things. Relaxation, relief of boredom or stress, escape from the daily grind. It doesn't mean you're not attractive or that you're not meeting his needs. It doesn't mean anything, really.

  • Ok these questions are so frequent you could see from other questions just like this which are on every 5-10 pages, the answer is for some guys its their alone time and its a way different ( not to say better) experience its like they masturbate everyday lets say do you want to f*** every single day? and even when theyre satisfied with you theyll go masturbate because its different! People like changing the foods they eat even though it might not be as good as the last meal, right? And its like your own control you can do it when ever you want instead of having an approval with her...

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  • I am a girl and I watch porn despite having a boyfriend. It's about watching people have sex and do sexual things, it's not about looking at beautiful women and other t*ts and asses. I don't look at the men in porn and wish I was f***ing them, I watch porn because it's a turn on and then it makes me want to have sex and love my boyfriend even more.

    In fact, most people in porn I find very ugly. It's about the act of sex.

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  • its something that's done when were bored that's all.

  • We don't compare our girlfriends to girl is porn, usually. Sometimes were lazy and just want to bust one with little effort.

  • Because porn makes guys get turned on and makes them feel happy. I'm sure when your guy is happy,you are happy right? =)

  • Because it is a lot easier Masturbating to than trying to get a Girl to have Sex with him even if he has a Girlfriend or Wife.

  • The same reason they want to f*** your hot friends. The same reason they'd want to f*** your hot mom (if she's hot). Guys are wired to want to procreate with a variety of chicks. Women on the other hand are hardwired to want to keep the best "provider" which could mean most masculine or successful. Instead of caring about porn or other women why don't you just focus on being the best YOU can be. It has NOTHING to do with you, your sexiness, or how he feels about you. The feelings from porn/random chicks is very superficial and most guys while they might have these feelings will not stray since their feelings for you/losing you would be stronger.

  • i wanna know the same thing! My boyfriend watches porn a lot and we have sex every day! I just don't get it myself...stupid boys! ;)