How do I get him to STOP touching me?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy in my theatre class at school who always seems to find a reason to touch me. At first like he just would come over and talk to me and I'm rather shy but I was polite and when he made small talk I talked with him. But after a while he got a little creepy like the small talk turned into him just hitting on me and then that turned into him always putting his arm around me, always looking down (like behind me since he's taller and looking down over my head...clearly looking down my shirt...i don't know who he's trying to fool, I mean seriously what else is he looking at, my shoes?), I'm not a very um touchy person and its starting to really creep me out,just constantly putting his arm around me, looking down my shirt, when he sits next to me he like is feeling up my leg and he ges his hand pretty high and I'm just really uncomfortable but I don't know what to do, like...he does this stuff when the teacher is obviously busy and no one else seems to notice. I've told him to like "stop please" and swatted his hand away but he doesn't get the message. I'm in grade 11 and I'm 16...this guy... I think he's like repeating grade 12 for the second time so he's 19. He's just really starting too creep me out and today pushed me too my limit, I was bent over just picking up my backpack and he came up behind me and grabbed my ass and then walked away...wtf. What do I do to make him stop?

[SCU2013]

ok seriosly I know your shy but you need to stand up to him. call him out! or find someone that will. do you know any loud friends that can do it? basically embarris him the next time he tries to do anything, just be like "STOP TOUCHING ME!" really loud, and draw attention. and if that doesn't work you need to tell someone, because that's pretty gross that he's doin that. and obviosly he's somewhat of a loser if he's what we call a "Super Senior" and he can't even get out of high school. You see when I was in high school this happened and the girl didn't say anything and the guy raped her in the locker room, and if she wouldve just set him straight or told someone I know that probably wouldn't have happened. now don't think I'm blaming her bcuz he knew what he was doing, which was wrong, but still the point is to draw the line at where you feel is nessecary.

[Panqueque]

scream rape or just really loud and he will back the f*** off

[lefthand]

he's a predator. Best response is violent because that is one of the few things that will get him off you. He's using your social discomfort with addressing his inappropriate touching to force you to accept it. There is no upper limit to how far he will push it so you need to make the limit clear. As I said, direct physical aggression will stop the majority of idiots cold. They are looking for a helpless flower and directly confronting them kind of puts you out of that category.

[bytesunfish]

Stab his hand with a pen next time he tries to grab at you and if he doesn't stop after that report him.

[azzhole725]

Kick in the balls. No, that would be assault. Make a big scene the next time he does it to you. If that doesn't do it, talk to your teacher after class and have him or her talk to him. Talk to your counselor.Good luck!

[somedude555]

hmm... id tell him strait up how you feel. just take him aside and let him know that you feel uncomfortable with him touching you like that.

if he doesn't listen and keeps doing it then id tell an adult.

[BlackSuperman]

tell that pedophile to quit... if he keeps it up, kick him in his d***... and/or call the cops on him... I'm sure the boys in cellblock D would love a yung tenderoni like him

[tigerguy]

grab is balls tight and say "you touch me again, I'll do more damage to these than I'm doing now that you wish to god you never wish you touched me in the first place.

trust me the balls are the sensitive part of the guy to touch, one squeeze and he will be in pain.