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Do guys care about stretch marks?

I'm scared to have sex because of my stretch marks on my stomach. I know it's because I'm curvy and from when I hit puberty. They're kind of pinkish and I just hate them, and they stand out so much because I'm so pale. Here's the thing, there's this guy and we both want to have sex with each other and that's it. I'm 18 and he's 24. When having sex with a girl, do you guys care if she has stretch marks, do you notice them, and is it a turn off?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Never in the slightest have they bothered me, stretch marks are natural and most guys are aware that most women have them, any guy that finds them a big enough problem to not date you is a jerk and is not the sort of guy you should be with anyway, consider it a way of picking the boys out of the men haha. Most guys don't consider them something to take notice off and to be honest most the time guys don't notice the little things that girls do unless you blatently point them out, yes... its true, its sometimes that bad but its also sometimes a good thing when it comes to things that make you body concious such as stretch marks, a lot of times guys won't notice them but even if they do most guys still don't mind, some don't really like them but those same guys still wouldn't consider it something that would put them completely off you so don't worry.

    i don't think stretch marks are bad at all but if they really concern you, you could consider using bio oil on them or even body butter. I heard that they are great for drastically reducing the appearence of them and making them much less visible but just know that its not a problem and this guy that you care about that you want to lose you virginity to is not going to care, that won't be the first thing on his mind anyway but its best that you trust him enough at least.

    anyway good luck, god bless

  • Its not a turn off. If he is focused on the stretch marks he needs to have head checked! The funny thing about this is he is wondering if you will notice something on him. Maybe a birth mark...Would you?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have stretch marks. On my thighs, a couple on my stomach. It happened when I grew really fast and gained like 10 pounds in two weeks so I have been working out and eating well and they are kind of dissapearing they are becoming white instead of pink or purple. I've also been putting a lot of creams with salycic acid (for acne) on them to solidify them. I don't think this will work as well but I am trying it out they say to keep doing it for around 3 months before you see a difference. As for your problem if the guy likes you and wants to have sex with you I don't think he'll mind. I think he'll be more preocuppied with having sex with you then looking at your stretch marks. If you are really self conscious about it then talk to him about it let him know that you have some and how they came and that you hope sex will still be good for him.

  • well it depends on the guy, if he likes a curvy gal, then you shouldnt worry about it, but try losing some weight, they will disappear or become less noticable, or try tanning alittle so you are less white that way they won't stand out as much and put lots of lotion on them so you don't get more. I don't think that he's going to even notice , I think that your over reacting, unless you guys plan on staring each other down with the lights on, in my experince , yes some guys look at your stomach but most look at your boobs or butt, so don't worry about it and if he doesn't want to have sex with you because you have strech marks then you shouldnt have sex with him anyways. Most guys love women with curves and not thin as a board where they think there gonna smash you. They like some meat to grab onto. Good luck and don't be so nervous:)

  • Haha sweetie he is either too busy worrying about how his own body looks or he is too busy being totally excited that he's having sex with you period.

    Millions of girls have stretch marks, it doesn't mean your fat, it just means certain parts grew faster than your skin could stretch.. I have them on my boobs.

    I guarantee he won't notice, and if he does he won't give a crap at all. :)

    Love your body!

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  • I doubt he'll care. As for the pinkness! Pick up some lotion with vitamin E and aloe in it - or just straight vitamin E, and rub it on them once or twice every day and that should help reduce the color and possibly size. :D

  • No guys are not going to care. Don't know why we worry so much about looking like models when in most cases it is not true.

  • no

    stretch marks mean one or two things even you was big and got skinny or you was skinny and got big either way we still gonna hit it"

    -Katt willams

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  • never notice them

  • it just depends on the guy and most guys have them as well so no worries hun :)

  • No lol

    • Almost everyone and anyone has stretch marks to a degree... the models you see cover it up with tons of makeup

  • If I really like the girl I really could care less! If he really he won't care either! My ex had them and I didn't even notice til she pointed them out! lol

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