How does sex feel for the first time?

I'm scared 😬
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Also how can u keep doing it if it hurts? How
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Hurts quite a bit. Even the second time it hurt a little for me. Ask him to go slow and use lube. Would recommend foreplay beforehand too. It's just one of those things were you've got to battle through it I guess. Just got to deal with it. Then ofc be ready for the blood :/ The first time he didn't even finish because it was just wayy too painful for me. Instead I finished him off with my hand.

    Emotionally though, feels scary as f*** haha. You don't really know what to do, what they're thinking, if it's good for them, etc. You're scared how you look and all of that stuff too.

    I can't even remember if I enjoyed it at all the first time. Honestly I don't remember it much at all since it was about 5 years ago XD But trust me it gets good after a few times. Reaaaally good if it's with the right person. So intimate and you just feel so in love afterwards.

  • For me at the beginning it was this sharp stretching feeling the deeper he went but over time it'll go away and actually start to feel good

  • The first time isn't amazing. Its kinda awkward (depending on who you're with i guess). But should not be painful.

Most Helpful Guys

  • For women it hurts a little bit to a lot cause your stretching out more than you have and using nerve endings that have not been aroused before. If they have a hymen then that will hurt getting broken and some blood will probably come out.
    They keep going because it quickly starts to feel good. The pain turns to pleasure because the nerve endings finish warming up and connecting.
    Also for women then need to be relaxed and spend a lot of time in forplay because sex is very emotional for you it will also help arouse you more and lube you up.
    It is not like BDSM pain it does not keep hurting the pain changes into pleasure. Instead of pleasure mixing with pain.

  • Assuming you want it from the girls' POV so:
    My ex didn't really have any big issues with it. She didn't exactly have the best time but it wasn't particularly bad either. More of an emotional experience than a physical one the first time.
    Right and, I'm probably a fair bit above average. I think it just bottles down to you being relaxed, comfortable and excited. Of course if you've played with yourself before that might ease the experience.

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  • We all were scared out first time. For a guy it is not about any pain... but rather will he orgasm too quickly or not at all and how will he perform.

  • For a guy it feels great. can't say much about the girl. Just make sure your aroused enough and have lube available. It shouldn't be painfull however I've heard that it may be uncomfortable.

  • its usually a little painful for girls their first time but its a growing pain it will feel better the more you do it. losing your v-card is fun but its not like a magical experience, just a funny memory to think of the older you get.

  • Painful. It is possible to continue, hard, but it is. Buy a lubricant and tell him to use it if you're feeling to much pain. Also, you probably won't enjoy it.

  • It feels good for guys but kinda hurtful to girls.

  • for girls it hurts

  • a bit painful, but a few times and it's fun

  • My first time was awkward, i don't remember it hurting that much as it changed to good pretty quick. Second time onwards was fine. You just have to be ready for it, go very slow at the start and you'll be fine.

  • Hun doesn't hurt that much. More uncomfortable feeling.

  • I was so nervous that my dick is soft the whole time. It was horrible and embarrassing.

  • Girls opinions might be a little more helpful to you than guys. Generally it is more pleasurable and painless for guys and it is the girls who have the pain issue.