New boyfriend and period?

Question

i don't know why i'm stressing with this. I'm stayin over at my new bf's apartment and i've been here for 2 days and stayin till tomorrow night and today I got my period. He's at work at the moment, but I don't know how im gonna tell him im on my period when we're gonna make out and he'll probably touch me down there.. i don't want him to be shocked or feel disgusted.. how do guys handle this? we've had great sex for the past 2 days, and I think this is why my period came earlier.

Knuckles77 · Accepted Answer

From personal experience with previous GFs and the ex wife and an actual poll taken in a class by a show of hands from the ladies during a medical class I was taking, aside from ovulation, a lot of girls admitted to being the most horny when starting and on their periods. I think you about to start your period is what caused the great sex, not vice versa. Sex is better the hornier you are.

That said all my exes, despite admitting to being the most horny when starting and during their periods (aside from ovulation) were not comfortable generally with fooling around. I'd have to pretty much beg if I wanted it that bad. They seemed imbarassed about the blood, concerned what I would think of it, seemed to feel less attractive or sexy (understandable) and concerned about the odor

That said it is my view (this one I'm not sure about with most other guys) that the dreaded period in no way deters, hampers of grosses me out. Ironically the first time I had intercourse the chick happened to start her period. I was 18. I was in the shower, and noticing a lot of blood running down my legs, when simultaneously she walked into the bathroom apologetically and advised me she was on her period. I was actually very relieved as it was when I noticed the blood running down my legs and down the drain and my thoughts were racing (did I break my penis? (I was tappin that ass something fierce), was she a virgin? Did I break her hyman? I thought she said she wasn't a virgin, right? Did I injure her? (Again, I was up in there deep, fast and very hard)) She thought I'd be mad, nope was relieved (that first of all I was no longer a virgin, been trying to get rid of my virginity since I was at least 14) second was very happy nobody was traumatically injured.

Anyway, I digress from my point. The period as I stated in no way bothers me. I have gone down on girls on their periods many times and had intercourse under such conditions as well many times. I'm not grossed out by it. It is 100% a non issue to me. The girls, Ironically are the ones who are squeamish about it.

I have no clue how the average guy feels about it. It's something you have to ask your man, and be comfortable with yourself.

Lastly, if you or he are not ok with doing anything due to the situation, there's no better time for a BJ, or handy J I can think of.

summiter · Accepted Answer

Having a period is normal. Guys understand. Just tell him but also tell him that you are going to give him the best handjob he has ever had... he will love it!! Your thoughts?

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

Be open and honest with him. Let him know you've started your period. If you like, you can suggest restricting sexual activities to pleasuring him only until your period is over. You can enjoy sucking his cock and swallowing his cum. It's a very satisfying activity.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Jeez, you should be able to tell him things like this. Just tell him straight out that Mother Nature has come for a visit and its only blowies/kissing for tonight. He has the right to know before you start making out.

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

If you start to make out just say you're feeling a bit sore because it's that time of the month.  He'll understand, and can choose what he wants to do from there if you're ok continuing

Luci92 · Accepted Answer

Just lay some towels down, don't stress it. Show him the door if he don't wanna go there

ghjk12334 · Answer

just tell him straight! honestly that's the best choice... otherwise he'll be thinking what's wrong, etc

Tyrael · Answer

He's your boyfriend just tell him straight. I don't know how you feel about this but, turn the lights down, put a towel down and use a condom, you can still have sex.

Kaylyne · Answer

Why not be completely open and honest with him, I'm sure he would appreciate that much more, rather than you trying to "dodge" your way out/around it.