A really mind-blowing BJ is a RARE and wonderful thing.
Most girls, in my experience, even if they think they're good at it, have never taken the time to really learn how to do it properly. In my life, I've only met one girl who could give an unbelieveable blowjob ...and I married her...not because of the BJ skills, but it helped.
Based on the ratio of the good to the bad to the ugly that I've experienced in my life, I doubt most guys have experienced a truly great blowjob, which probably explains the number of "not better" comments here.
If a guy has sex, and cares about the person he's having it with, it's a lot of hard work, and a lot of forcing yourself not to enjoy it too much, which kind of dulls the experience a bit... a lot actually. Plus for the most part the guy has control of everything that's happening and therefore knows what's coming before it happens.
A BJ on the other hand is entirely controlled by the girl, entirely unpredictable, and the more you let yourself enjoy it the faster it will be done and the happier she will be. Plus if she does it right, she can increase the force at which the guy cums and extend it's duration. INCREDIBLE!
This answer is really interesting! It is true that sex can be lots of work for guys, but I just hadn't thought of that too much... interesting!
Getting a blowjob is great, but it doesn't replace sex. The sensation is entirely different and makes sex better. If you ever get the impression that the blowjob is being used as a way of getting off without having to do any work, just start setting rules. He gets head if you do as well, or maybe you have other sexual fantasies he might be a bit reluctant to try and felatio is the perfect bargaining chip.
I sometimes feel like the guys I've been with would rather get head off me than have sex, but they said it was the best head they've ever had by far lol
That is EXACTLY why I asked the question... because I'm trying to figure out if its just another form of foreplay or a quickie-you-dont-really-matter-im-just-trying-to-get-off-thing. thanks for seconding my thoughts! lol yeah, I've getten the 'you're the best I've ever had' too.... always wondered if that was true or not too.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For me a bj is just foreplay. An orgasm while inside a vagina can never be replaced by a bj. It's not true for me that a bj is better than being inside a vagina during an orgasm.
What a rotten thing to say. :(
How is that a rotten thing to say !?
If by better, you mean worse, then sure. The profit margins on fellatio tend to be rather low compared to straight up f***mastering.
I don't see the problem you have with my answer. Your confusing answer seems to agree with me that vaginal sex is more enjoyable than a bj. I've written nothing to be considered as 'rotten'.
Well, there are girls out there who want nothing more than a nice in their bellies. So to be so assured that vaginal is the best way to go is a little limited and self-centered.
I qualified my statement by saying, "For me....". I was speaking for myself. Are you me? Was I speaking for you? No, I was not.
A blowjob feels real good but I still like sex better.
I have had a drunken bj and I must say it was pretty awesome, but nowhere near as good as sex!
Yes only done right but 90% of women don't know how but this one time I had bj completely sealed it for me over every women I had sex with, that blowjobs was better than any sex I had no matter the how good a vergin could be ill never beat a perfect blowjobs sad to say not everyone could experience it my way
more girls will give head! I have had girls that will give head but will not spread the legs! good is better than a loose pu ssy! but nothing can beat a tight pu ssy!
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