Do girls get turned off when a guy gets erect when grinding?

[edgar334]

I had a experience with a girl who was grinding a little to hard with me, plus it was my first time, so I ended up getting a little too excited if you know what I mean lol. The thing is she wanted to go back to our table a couple minutes after. I was thinking if that made her a little uncomfortable then why was she rubbing so hard against me and bending over almost to the floor to get me more excited. I was also wondering if girls find it uncomfortable or a turn off if a guy gets erect when grinding.

[haleyb]

She probably didn't mean to get you hard if she was uncomfortable about it- she was probably just dancing. I don't really know if she was uncomfortable, but I wasn't there.

But usually I like it if I'm grinding with a guy and he gets turned on-just as long as he doesn't expect too much out of it.

[blondie1]

i take it as a compliment when that happens cause then I know I'm doing something right and that he finds me attractive. but I agree she probably just got tired. grinding or dancing for that matter is a big work out so don't worry about it. if she didn't like it she wouldve walked away.

[misio]

well it's not a turn off.

and it all depends on the girl. I'm sure she was trying to make you horny if she was grinding that hard on you. Don't worry

she probably just wanted to go back to the table cause she got tired. no worries :)

[Anonymous]

Good question! I too would like to hear responses on this. I am easily excitable... grinding is always enough to give me a hard-on (even though I'm not trying!) It doesn't mean I have low stamina either (because I can basically go as long as I want)... I'm just... very easily excitable... lol.

[ilovestuff62]

Same here I hate being easily excitable its a pain because you barely do anything and there it is man I don't know what I can do to help for that but I guess I just got to try to get myself to calm down

[sa230e]

Heh, I've seen girls on here say they were trying to give the guy a boner by grinding! I thought that was the point. That's sort of why I asked my question (thanks btw).

[edgar334]

Lol I didn't know that was the point of that dance. I thought it was just a dance created by pop culture and the idea was to get close with each others body. No problem.

[sa230e]

I'm not saying that's the point, it's just the impression I got. I kind of thought it was one of those things women did to be sexy and feel a guy's body only that they could pass of as something else. I'm not with pop culture at all though so what do I know. But hey if she's grinding her ass into your crotch she has to be expecting it's going to happen. Right?

[J_D_H]

^^ Yeah, you'd think. But, then again, you could think a lot of things, and be wrong

[DemonicGman]

I asked a girl this very question and she said that no, they actually like it because it shows to them that they are hot. And she said it helps them center themselves when dancing.

[shes-a-lady]

i'd love that lol. but I wouldn't dance like a slut.

you can get guys excited and still be somewhat decent.

its all about attitude ;)

[WavyCherry]

She was probably trying to make you hard, yeah.

Actually, and, I find it quite hot.

[curvyjulia]

Turned way on.

[missme0owe]

not all girls are turned off by it, some girls like it and that's their intentions...obviously is she was grinding harder and closer she knew what she was doing..

[Wadupp]

Turned on. Hands down.

[Anonymous]

nope hell no! I personally like it! I dnt see how any girl wood think it was a turn off!