How to lead her into giving her first blowjob?

So we have talked about it before and stuff and she is down to try it, we've done everything lower than a blowjob so far if that makes sense, we've been dating for a little now, it's going amazing! But Girls preferably, wats the nicest way to lead her and teach her into giving a good one that won't make her regret it or make her feel uncomfortable?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't know if I would have her do 69, I think that position often makes it more challenging especially if she hasn't done it before. When I first gave a blowjob I had the guy lay on the bed and I started doing it. I think its important to make her feel comfortable and not pressure her to think she has to make you cum or anything. Just tell her to start slowly sucking, like she would on a lollipop. Tell her what feels good and gently guide her to what you think feels good such as saying, "ooh more tongue that way," or "a little faster". Have her start on you for a little bit and definitely encourage her when it feels good. Unfortunately, it takes time to get really good but I know I was always more willing to try in the beginning when the guy was nice to me and encouraging. Maybe later tell her what felt good and give her some tips after you're done with other stuff. Best of luck!

Most Helpful Guys

  • A 69 could be the answer. Both of you would be involved, and it would be easy to ask her. First blowjob and good blowjob aren't always together. I think you need to cross that bridge with her first, then worry about good later (you can give suggestions to her, and she can give suggestions to you). Also what joemm said - keep it clean downstairs or else she won't be back anytime soon.

  • First thing you need to do is make sure that your penis is extra clean and smooth. Trust me... girls will be more willing to give you oral sex if things are in good shape down there. What you want to use is a penis health creme once a day. These are made to help guys keep their penises clean and work very well. Safe and easy to use too. You can get one online. Good luck!

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  • don't wait till your older but take it slow otherwise she will dump u

  • What do u mean below a blow job.