My friend says her boyfriend is long enough to hit deep spot/posterior fornix to cause strongest orgasm?

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I've had three lovers in my life and the biggest of the three was my ex hubby just at 5.34inches and 5inches in girth before this guy I'm dating now  is almost 4.5 long & 4.5girth. I noticed the difference the first time he put it in and I was let down but didn't care  because I don`t now what 7+ feels like. I`m really tight because I had a C-section so I`m not worried about girth but the longest thing I`ve ever had in me was my slim vibe that was 6inches. I could put it all the way in till the turn dial on the end was inside me no problem. I've looked it up and found that woman love the deep sensation past the cervix on the posterior fornix that causes mind blowing orgasms for some. I get hit on all the time so I`m good looking but not a cheater. My friend asked me how big my date was so I lied and said 7"long and 5 around  because I`m afraid someday it might come out and crush him. My friend said "wow he`s only a inch smaller than Mike witch is just shy of 8 but a little thicker than 6 in girth. So am I missing out on some good sensations/orgasms and try Mike's size out ? And could someone describe what it`s like to orgasm vaginally from a big one, and how big does it have to be for you personally to feel it at it`s best ? Please I came across this sight and was relieved to see I could get some answers and maybe have my first vaginal orgasm without my clit being sore/too sensitive afterwords...please no sugar coating the answer.

arutha64 · Accepted Answer

Size matters a lot less than technique... Really it sounds more like technique needs to be improved.

Posterior fornix, ok not 100% sure there. But anterior, on the front side but deeper than the gspot, you can definitely have a very very powerful orgasm from there with only 5". In fact, fingers are usually long enough. It is important to do lots of foreplay first, possible even a clit orgasm or if not then fairly close. Then, with my gf I basically reach my middle finger in as far as possible, facing upwards along the front wall, then bend my finger a bit, and begin wiggling the end of my finger. Sort of a short 'come here' motion, but not quite because it is more just the end of my finger that moves. Stimulate that front wall on what you will find is a very smooth area, and wetness will rapidly increase. You will feel when it is the right spot, and should communicate to the guy so he knows to keep going there. You can feel it starting to fill with liquid as you keep stimulating it, then you can hear it making a squelching wet noise. At that point you can increase the speed and pressure even more and the girl will have a massive very powerful orgasm.

AFTER you have done it with fingers THEN you go on to try it with penis during sex. After it has happened a few times then she will be much more sensitive to it, and more aware of the spot during sex. And if a finger can reach it, even a 5" penis can.

Honestly, I am probably 6" or maybe slightly under and that is plenty. I can reach that deep spot (and yes I know the difference between it and the gspot) easily. When my gf orgasms from there, it starts as immense pleasure that gets her really turned on. As she gets closer, I can feel her getting wetter and tighter. When she gets to the edge, she loses control of herself completely and can just basically just thrash around a bit in complete ecstasy and clutches me uncontrollably. Its a fantastic experience for both of us that leaves her very drained.

ThoroughFred · Accepted Answer

The good news is that the most intense orgasms are "usually" achieved from the g-spot, which is only about 2-3 inches into your V. Deep vaginal orgasms are not a myth as there are several ways for the body orgasm including anally or even purely from erogonous stimulation.

The bad news is, your man has to be long enough to reach the deeper parts of your V (about 6+) and it sounds unfortunately like he can't. If you are dying to experience it you can try to find another guy, but honestly most guys don't have a clue on how to give one and you would most likely destroy your current relationship on a quest for one. On top of that, too long can be quite painful. I'm only 7 and I "bottom out" on many girls. If a girl isn't properly warmed up a good stiff jab will kill the mood and set you back to zero in terms of building to orgasm. So too big can be very bad also.

I asked my girl about the differences so I could give you an educated answer beyond my "observations" of them. She said "its not any 'better', just different. It feels like it comes from a deeper part of your abdomen and has a longer lasting effect, but isn't as intense." My experience is similiar in that they tend to come on slower, last longer and be more "mellow" than an intense g-spot orgasm which usually sends a girl into convulsions. I don't think you are really missing out as much as you think.

I would just be happy with what you have instead of pursuing the holy grail of pleasure - there is no such thing. Besides, in my experience no matter how many orgasms you give a girl, or how good/bad/long they last, what they really crave is the sex itself not the individual parts of it that make it a satisfying experience.

If you are satisfied be happy with what you have. if you are not, work with your partner to increase his ability to please you with what he CAN do, and stop worrying about what he can't do.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've never had sex but my ex used to be able to give me the most amasing multiple orgasms with his fingers alone (thank-you g spot..!). Also, having spoken to some of my friends, they all reckon that having a c*ck that is too long is painful and that they would pick a chode over length cos it feels better.

If you really want to get the same feeling, why don't you just go out and buy a longer vibrator and see how it feels? I'd suggest not dumping your guy over something as crazy as penis size.

Finally, I read somewhere that for girls, orgasms are mostly about mind-set, so build it up in your mind that you will orgasm and apparently you have a far greater chance to do so.

Good luck!

cjwright79 · Answer

Yes you are missing out, no there's nothing you can do about it. Also, your ability to estimate circumference or diameter is way off. Nobody has a 5 inch cock, around or across. That's just silly.

RawDog · Answer

This is over a year old, so hopefully you're still checking in. I've been fascinated with the posterior fornix for years and have finally been able to properly stimulate my wife's for the last 8 months. Yes, for us it is the most mind blowing form of sexual interaction we've ever had. I can post a thorough description of how we do it if anyone's interested.

srpg007 · Answer

My girl has told me that I have the ultimate penis size and shape. I am 7.5 inches long and 6 on the girth. She tells me that rim of my head rubs her deep spot and gives he mind blowing orgasms. Our sex is fantastic and she always has body shaking multi O's that leave her silly. I never knew about a woman's deep spot til I met "V". Now I always try and focus on it during sex and we both end up totally satisfied. It helps that she absolutely enjoys anal sex too. WOW am I lucky but she says that she is the lucky one.

Good luck with your quest.

SR

FornixMassage · Answer

Tiffany - posterior fornix orgasms are real and completely hot! Without a doubt the guy will have to be pretty hung to fully reach you there and he'd have to know what to feel for. Let's talk sometime...

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