He lasts long and stays hard after cumming?

I'm 26 and I was had sex in high school then met my ex who I was in an LTR with for 7 years. We were the same age and he could last 5-10 mins during sex and always got soft after he came. It was hours before he could cum again.
Now I'm dating this new guy, who will be 33 in a few months. He lasts FOREVER and has perfect control of his orgasm. Sometimes it lasts too long and I start getting sore so we have to take a break. We were having sex and took it out to cum. Afterwards we were cuddling in bed and he was still rock hard! I've never experienced anything like that before. I know he didn't fake it well, because he got his love juice on me lol... Is it normal for older guys to last longer? And what's going on with that never ending erection? I'm definitely enjoying it though!!
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  • Not all guys are the same nor is every sexual encounter the same for the same guy. Next time you have sex you might find he gets soft after he ejaculates. Supposedly there are methods that guys can learn to do what your new guy is doing (can't comment as I haven't tried them) or maybe he's got some natural talent. Or maybe he's really turned on by you. Why do some women get really wet when they are turned on and others don't? Answer is who knows - if you are enjoying it then just be happy.

  • Haha you got one of the good ones ;) treasure that relationship. I bet he puts you in first in a lot of situations other than sex. But answering your question, it's not only a matter of age. It comes (no pun intended) when we start enjoying the deeper meanings of life.

    • He pays for every date, asks what I want to eat and then orders for me when the waiter comes, opens doors for me, has cooked me dinner and loves to go down on me. I'm in heaven lol.

    • Hahaa 😄 treasure him!! Give back ;)

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  • It happens to a few people actually my last guy whose 20 lasted at least over an hr most times, and it took him longer to cum but he did. I don't know if he went down immediately after but he nvr went soft during, I asked him why'd it take him so long not that I was complaining lol but he just said he didn't know it always took him a little while

  • Where do you find men like that? Need me one of them 😂

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  • Everyone's body is different some of us, through practice or luck are just able to hold indefinite elections and are more in tune with figuring out what particular girls want.

  • I don't know i can't even touch mine at all after it happens

  • Consider yourself to be fortunate.
    Other women dream of finding a man who takes a long time to cum and who stays erect.

    • I feel like I've hit the jackpot honestly

  • He might be taken pill to help him to do that or he on a blood thinner that one of its side effect is staying hard. most guys don't stay hard after Cummings unless you r on t others 2 thing I said.

    • But doesn't the pill make a guy get hard like a bit after taking it? Whether he's aroused or not? He only starts to get hard when *I* put the moves on him, and he never asks for sex, I initiate?

  • It's all in the mind. Whenever I record myself, the videos go up to 30 minutes. Maybe I wasn't thinking about cumming, but to put on a good show. When I have sex, I don't think about cumming either. I just enjoy her reactions and her expressions and as she cums I'm grinning

  • I got that too and he stays Hard after i came

  • It is determined by the strength of the pelvic floor muscles and also if they srent tight. They can become tight from sedentary lifestyles.

  • I've noticed as I get older I last longer to but as far as staying hard that always depends on how horny I am. did you go again since he was still hard

    • I'm used to younger guys finishing way too fast so this is new and different for me. I wanted to go again but he sid it was playing with fire since we weren't using a condom at that point and I'm don't have my birth control yet. We just slept after and it went away lol

    • well enjoy having an older guy who is a better lover. oh so you must've had him pull out to cum then

  • why do you think about it? enjoy it

  • It depends on the strength of the orgasm. If it's a strong one, I'll stay hard for a little while after.

  • Yes its normal and he is good at it. I dont need recovery time much, always do multiple round, it need so much practice. and i know how much girls love this.

  • Yeah I can get hard again pretty quickly after I cum sometimes. I can have another orgasm maybe 20 minutes after. But it just depends how turned on I am. Doesn't always happen

  • Hahahaha! That's awesome that you're enjoying it! How often do you have sex with him?

    • We've only had sex like 4 times but it's still early days lol

    • Nice! Do tell! So how long does he usually fuck you?

  • I can go forever (hours). I can not ejaculate inside a vagina, her ass, or her mouth. I have to take it out and do it myself. But once I do it goes down. Takes a little time then I'm back ready. I don't know what's goin on with this guy. You would think he'd go down at some point.

  • He could be taking Viagra without telling you but I do get like that at times too , we just have more control as we get older

    • How long does it take viagra to kick in? And does the penis get erect afterwards even without arousal? I noticed he doesn't get hard til I start to touch him.

    • And if this is the case I don't know why women want younger guys. I'll take older and experienced with control any day! Lol

    • Lol, good point, it only takes 20 minutes for it to work but you do need a little arousal for it to get him hard but it makes it last longer for some one who doesn't need it

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  • He has a high sex drive