Why do guys in a relationship still watch porn/ jack off?

[Anonymous]

okay so my boyfriend and I have a really good sex life...he loves it (he always tells me lol) and I do too.Yet he will still watch porn instead of coming to me and I would be horny. I don't really feel rejected but more confused like if you have the real thing and its amazing why would you settle for second best? I asked him about it btw and he said its just something he likes to do but why does he if he always ends up more satisfied with me so why go for the porn and he's definately satisfied with me every time ;)

[Anonymous]

Another insecure girl question.omg,guys are visual what else are they supposed to masturbate to?it's very unrealistic and unhealthy on your part to expect a guy to stop masturbating.That is just how guys get horny.Some girls read novels or can fantasize about a hot guy or whatever,and that's how girls get horny.Guys get horny by watching porn.He can pleasure himself better than you because he knows his body better than you,just as you can pleasure yourself better than him because you know yourself better than he does.There's nothing wrong with masturbating and that's just how he masturbates.He could be off cheating,he could be masturbating to another real life chick,but he's watching his computer screen.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure he loves having sex with you every bit and every time. But you must understand that as a guy, jacking off is just part of being a guy. We love porn and masturbation. Now if you give hima choice to either jerk off or have sex with you and he would rather jerk off. Then he may have a problem. But as for me, I love to jack off whenever I get the chance (not as often as I wish). It feels so great that I can't explain it. But if I have a p*$$y right in front of me and I was allowed to f**k it, I would definitely take the p%$$y over my hand. Hell, sometimes after sex, I could go for another round, and she's done and asleep. So I have no problems jacking myself off.

[NewYorkCity]

It is two different feelings. And as you said exactly one is a real thing and you can't do what he likes and other one is porn where your imagination is a limit. So for instance let's say he likes hard anal sex I'm just saying, and you not into that stuff he is just going to go home and watch what ever he imagines and wants to do.

[Johner]

Ok, someone is lying or being dishonest. Because if you're open willing and wanting and he is flying solo then something smells fishy.

Either he doesn't think he can get sex as often as he wanks.

Or

He prefers his hand D:

[mischiefmouth69]

Because we're selfish and with ourselves we get to get off without performance anxiety rather than risk our egos if we don't perform well with a girl.

[catiee]

Should I feel Insecure about myself because he dose it

[Anonymous]

Why do girls in relationships still seek attention from other guys?

[Anonymous]

that what he used to do before you came along...its different

bit like what you used to do to take care of yourself...you still do it even if you are in a realtionship