My boyfriend got another girl pregnant. Please help me guys :(
I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my other half. Late last year (09) we got into a fight and subsequently I left him and went to stay... Show More
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I was in a very similar situation with an ex many years back. UGH! Boys are f***ing stupid, so are slutty girls but anyway. If he knows this chick has been sleeping around he could request a paternity test to determine if it is his or not. If its not then tell her to go away. If it is his then he has to take whatever legal responsibility the state or country you are in requires. From your grammar and spelling you are not American, so I would have to say that you need to look into the laws where ever you may be. He may be able to sign away his legal rights to the child, meaning he would have no responsibility if she agreed to that. Some places may not require the mother to agree, but you would have to research. If she doesn't agree and he is pressed for child support or whatever is the standard in your country then he must comply or face a bundle of nasty consequences. He chose not to use a condom and must face the consequences. I am sorry for you because I know how HORRIBLE it is to be in this situation.
My situation turned out somewhat positively; I dumped my then boyfriend as he had impregnated this girl while we were at a party. He screwed her in the bathroom while I was talking to someone else, mind you there were bowls of condoms in the bathrooms that he chose not to use. The chick called me and asked me for the money to terminate the pregnancy. I dumped him and gave her his number and told her I had nothing to do with it. He was so made I gave her his number and told her his full name. I have no idea what they ended up doing but I was done with it.
What Guys Said 1
well first, I would have him request a peternity test to see if he is actually the father. if he is, then obviously he's going to have to help out with taking care of the child. he doesn't have to be with her at all in fact only has to help out with the child. I think you two will be fine as long as your up to knowing that he has a child and its not with you, but I wish you the best of luck and hopefully its not his!
What Girls Said 2
Get a dna check first of all, girls lie about stuff like this all the time. Second if it is his, see what the woman is going to do with it, keep it, adopt it out. third get a laywer, very important you get a laywer have her sign paper work about costody and child support if you do not do this (and she's keeping the baby) it will screw you over later in life. My parents went through the same thing and they fought over me all the time. As for her getting your man, he knows she's a bitch he won't go for her.