Facial hair
It depends on what she likes and if you are okay with it. I'm not saying people should change their partner's look but facial hair is a slight modification. A well-kept beard looks aesthetically pleasing to most women. Length to consider...
You don't want it too long that catches food when you go out to eat. Plus when you go down on her, sometimes you will need a hand towel to wipe off your 'flavor saver'. Some women really get into oral and produce more lubrication. Nothing wrong with that and that hand towel saves some embarrassment on her end.
Too short and eating that muff might cause abrasions. Facial hair has the abrasive properties of copper with the same thickness. Kissing might be an issue as well.
There are a number of styles to choose from though some might not look good on your face. link
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It is a good idea to keep that area trimmed. An electric trimmer with length attachments is a good idea. Try this out prior to having a date first. Get the largest length attachment and trim really good. Lightly rub the area to get all the loose hairs and then put your clothes back on. Walk around and make sure it doesn't itch. If you are good, you can try the next shorter length. Repeat until it starts to itch when you walk. Either mark the previous length or memorize it.
That setting will be the shortest length you can use without being uncomfortable. If you aren't that hairy down there to begin with, the least you can do is get rid of all the loose hairs. Grab and give a slight tug. Remember, you aren't expecting her to go down there but if she does... you don't want her to stop to fish out a hair so the more thorough you are... the better.
When you have a date lined up, trim the day before if you can help it. Shower afterward to get all the hair clippings off. Hope that helps.
its a preference thing so a one night stand girl proably won't care
but in a relationship it shouldnt be to hard to bring this question up into a everyda conversation
scene- she just cam to your house and she is about to spend the night watching movies and stuff with you and you will get some later
you: hey baby how was your day
girl: it was nice but I'm tired
you: aww baby do you want me to give you a neck rub
girl:its ok I just wanna watch some movies and spend some time with you. how was your day
you: it was boring the only thing excited I did was shave
girl: she laughs
you: do you think I should shave my pubic hair tomorrow. maybe that can be my big thrilll of the day
girl: yes you should do that I never really liked long pubic hair, but dotnt shave off all of it just trim it down low
you: alright imma go make some popcorn and you pop in the movie
and its just that easy
Im going to start with facial hair, I don't mind it, but I hate long beards. My current guy has facial hair, it makes him seem more masculine. I like it because it works well with his facial structure, but very few guys in my opinion can pull of the facial hair type of thing. As for pubes, please no overly hairy wild bush ok. One time I had sex with a guy whose pubes were so hairy I couldn't feel him inside me, all I could feel was his pubes chaffing my vulva and it hurt. Personaly I preffer shaved, but most women would like trimmed. So shave your balls and leave a small trimmed patch of hair, like porn guys.
I acually had a dream about an evil pube monster once
I prefer totally shaved, both facial and pubic. No hair anywhere (at all) except ontop the head where it belongs ;) but it's totally an individual preferance. Don't change just for a girl, and I have said this before but - if she can't love you for who you are, she doesn't deserve your attention! though hygiene should be your number 1 priority. You'd be surprised how much a girl would appreciate soft hands(from lotion, etc.), a clean face, non-greasy hair and clean nails. It makes you seem like you take care of yourself. :D
I always use lotion on my hands, yet because I lift, I have massive callouses. Is that a turnoff?
Probably not, to a girl who likes a guy to be more muscular. It might be more like "ooh, you work hard, you big strong man!" But to me, a girl who prefers a guy to be more feminine, it would be more like "eww, roughness.. Lemme give you a manicure! :D" but it's not necessarily a turnoff, it's just not attractive (to me)
I like a guy's facial hair to be shaved generally, I don't mind scruff though. It just irritates my face to kiss it a lot lol :p
Pubic hair, I couldn't really care less about. I guess I always expected a guy to have it, so it doesn't bother me.. even when my boyfriend trims, I don't really notice lol.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well it really all depends on the girl :P I think totally shaved makes you look too young but rly long hair gets in the way so maybe nicely trimmed... that's what I prefere. Not too long, not too short, but well kept. Facial hair depends on if it looks good on you or not but I don't mind it :P as long as its not a santa beard ;)
it's a matter of preference, but...
I like an unshaved face, and trimmed pubic hair. And for the love of God don't shave your chest or any other part of your body!
You can never get a consensus on this. I like hairy, but most guys and girls like shaved. My recommendation, and against my will, is to shave.
Personally, I would lick an unshaven one and have more fun doing it before a slick shaved one! ~~JP
facially-clean shaven, pubic-trimmed
I think totally shaved looks stupid on a guy, but neatly groomed has a very very sexy appeal to me and other girls as well.
it really depends on what you look like?
I prefer facial hair on most guys and trimmed pubes. If you have hairy legs and a hairy stomach and shave the pubes, it just looks weird... don't do it.
Good call.
It varis. Personally I like shaved face and body but I don't mind a little hair in the pubic area, as long as its trimmed.
mmmm tough question mm personally I'm not a hairy guy fan :] my boyfriend started shaving his area and now I'm less bother by it because it not a pretty view to see when going down... facially it hot when a guy has facial hair if he can grow one but they have to know how to fix it...but the shaving if you don't like shaving it just make sure to trim it as low as possible
body hair is nasty
Facial- a little, neat and trimmed or shaved
Pubic-Trimmed or shaved
Some girls prefer hairy guys. But on the most part I think girls like clean shaven guys. Maybe a nice trim on the pubes.
i think trmming is wise, but on your face I love stuble.
Facial hair is OK but defineatly not too much. Stubble is hot
Pubic hair is fine as long as it's not a huge forrest. Trimmed is good. Shaved is good too though. Really whatever feels good to you.
pubes should mos def be trimmed, and facial hair is kinda sexy if kept nicely. (Not too much though) :)
I LOVE hair :) and stubble is HOT on guys :)
Personal preference - for me - no chest hair, keep the pubes, loove facial hair but it's nice when it is neat and tidy
Go Trimmed
make sure to keep both area's neat
i don't mind hair unless your expecting a blow job. If you want a bj you gotta be shaved...
I think I would decline sex cold turkey if the guy had pubic hair...It MUST be shaved. As far as facial hair...that should really be shaved. The most a guy could do is slightly past a 5 o'clock shadow...like having some scruff every once and a while.
BUT... I have to say again...NO PUBIC HAIR!
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