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He wants me to take Plan B?

So my boyfriend and I had sex without a condom the other night, he pulled out way before finishing. I know it was a bad idea. But anyway, he wants me to take a plan B pill but I really don't wnat to because I know the side effects can really suck and it will jack up my cycle. I am pretty convinced I won't get pregnant since the pullout method has never caused me to get pregnant. Should I take the pill because he wants me to or just tell him no?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • TBH he has a good reason as for why he wants you to take it; he doesn't want to take the risk of you becoming pregnant.

    Just beacause the pull out method has proved to be successful for you previously doesn't mean that it will always remain successful.

    As for Plan B, I have taken it multiple times and it has never jacked up my menstural cycle, nor did I get the side effects that everyone scares you into thinking that you will get.

    I think it's better to be safe than sorry and take the pill, for you and your boyfriends sake.

  • Don't do anything that you don't want to do just because he wants you to. He should have wore a condom or you should have suggested it or at least be on the bill or some other form of birth control.
    This is semi at you but not intended to offend you. I don't understand people who don't want kids who don't use protection. Isn't it cheaper to by condoms then the morning after pill? Why put yourself & relationship through the worry & stress when you can just be proactive instead of reactive?

  • It's your body, therefore it is your decision. Don't do things that make you uncomfortable just because he's paranoid. If you don't want to then don't, you said yourself you're pretty confident that you won't be getting pregnant anytime soon and if you do, you again can decide how to handle it because you are a grown woman who is capable of making your own decisions regarding your body.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If I found out a girl I'm with has the same thoughts as you are now, I'd dump her straight away.

    • Why?

    • @jacksallyfan89 Having babies is a huge cost for men that can potentially ruin our futures. You are intent on making a decision to take risks that he clearly does not want to take. If I were in his shoes, I don't think I could trust you anymore.

    • No, I knew that after I sent it. My bad. No, I agree with you.

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  • Well just know he's not gonna pay child support. Sorry.

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  • Your body. Your choice. But they will also be your consequences.

  • I would take it just in case but get on bc as soon as you can

    Make sure your boyfriends there to make you feel better from plan b

  • Unless you are okay with the chance of being pregnant. TAKE IT

  • You need to do what's best for you in this case (personally, I don't like the idea of Plan B, but that's whole different conversation). Don't allow him to bully you either way.

  • Its your body your choice

  • It's $40 that you don't need to spend. If he pulled out within plenty of time, you really shouldn't be worried.
    I've taken it. I didn't suffer from any side effects but I was told it can make you nauseus

  • Tell him to take a chill pill.

    • Oh, and make sure he uses a condom next time.

  • Try other methods, such as a coil or injection. x

  • go for it

  • take plan b then

  • Next time use a condom

  • Are you ready for a baby?

  • Would you rather one messed up cycle or a baby? That's the real question you need to ask yourself not whether or not you should listen to your boyfriend. 🙄

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