How can I stop being horny all the time?

Whenever I'm around my boyfriend I get horny. All we have to do is kiss and I'll get tingles down below and I'll start getting wet. He just has to touch my butt, wrap his arm around me as he's half asleep, etc… I'll get horny.
I don't think he likes to have sex as often as I do, so how can I stop it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's normal and natural. The only way to "stop" it is not be around him lol. Assuming he's the cause of it. It might just happen anyway? If you're worried about it and whether it bothers him... instead of trying to "stop" it, talk to him and ask him if he minds? Chances are he doesn't but if he does, they all as he has to do is talk to you about it and say, not today or right now, I'm not in the mood. Then you just have to do something else that's all. Problem solved.

  • You sound normal to me! How often are you two having sex? Do you go for round two or three? Maybe buy some sex toys like a good vibrator... they can be fun! Your thoughts?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds pretty normal, you need to be a little more vocal about your needs, if he doesn't get that hint get physical with him and jump his bones more often; then you could always just take matters into your own hands right beside him, almost gaurantee that he'll want to participate in one way or another!!

  • Maybe if every time you think about having sex you immediately think of a crying baby it'll dry ya right up

    • Hahaha lol :-)

  • you sound perfectly normal plus i guess it will be normal for you to feel this way around your SO

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If he's not in the mood, just go with masturbation. It's not really a huge issue or even anything wrong.

  • Masturbate. A lot.

  • Well, try getting turned on, and then have him instantly stop. Eventually the brain will stop assuming "oh yeah sex incoming"

  • find another guy, clearly you guys aren't compatible, either that or pretty much tell him yourself that you want more sex

  • masturbate

  • You can't.. Don't so yourself now :-P

  • if u want to get laid and if u guys live together, before he goes home from work by 5 min, start masturbating to porn, make sure he catches u, if he replies negatively be honest, and tell him that ur always horny

  • personally if u want to remain in a healthy relationship buy a dildo as ur boyfriend is not horny as you and it's better then jumping on some strangers bed after getting drunk so buy sexy toys

  • convince him u need more sex, i don't think its always fair to leave girls hanging, u guys should get as much as u want

  • come visit me... lol

  • You can't... and why would you? You need a boyfriend that can keep up with your sex drive

  • You don't necessarily need to stop. Talk to him about having sex a bit more

    • Or just masturbate more

  • Why would you want to stop? You'll have plenty of time for that after the menopause.

  • I would keep you satisfied. What guy wouldn't

  • Have more sex and longer.

  • why don't you try masturbating?

  • There is nothing you can do with this except for creating some distance or space with your boyfriend but it doesn't sound good.