How do I know if my boyfriend enjoys sex with me?

[Anonymous]

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we live together. He is the first guy I have slept with so he had to teach me a few things lol We use to have sex 7 days a week but lately it's just been 3 or 4 times a week. HE never tells me if he enjoys it or anything. I have asked him if he wants me to do something different or if he wants to try something new but he will never tell me. We have sex and he gets up and cleans up and we crawl back and bed and he always says "I love you sexy." and we cuddle and hit the sack. How do I know if he still enjoys it?

[azicr]

3-4 times a week is plenty. The part after the sex is so sweet, I really cuddling afterwards too and if he seas a few sweet words that makes it even better--it really shows he cares for you and enjoys you.

Maybe he deosn't want to try anything different cause he thinks you may think it's weird. so maybe you should be the one to initiate something different and I can guarantee he will go along with it,

also, I think it's pretty obvious he enjoys otherwise he would't do it 3-4 times per week and if you really wanna know the obvious ask him straight out.

[wanacot]

He wouldn't be doing it with you if he didn't enjoy it. The bigger question is do you enjoy it? Do you get satisfied? Cause it doesn't sound like it from your description.

[Asker]

I am satisfied! I just don't want hi to get bored with me or the sex...

[wanacot]

Like I said, he wouldn't be doing it that much with you if he didn't enjoy it. You can't expect to maintain the same amount of sex throughout the entire relationship as in the beginning. It always slows down somewhat after the initial "honeymoon" phase.