Should a non-virgin girl date a virgin guy?

i recently started talking/dating a very attractive 20 year old guy who I like pretty well. he hadn't even tried to have sex with me which I found odd but comforting. well I just recently found out that it's because he's still a virgin. do you think it would work between a girl who's had.. well experience, and a guy who hasn't had any at all? and what are the pros and cons to this?


Most Helpful Guy

  • 23 year old virgin here, telling you that it's perfectly OK for you to go through with this if you like him. If I could choose, I'd rather have a girl who's had it before, as opposed to one who's also a virgin. But it wouldn't really matter to me in the end.


What Guys Said 9

  • 20 year old virgin guys are usually dating the girls they want to pop their cherry. If you're not cool with that, bail out.

  • This is a silly question, but I will humor you.

    Why wouldn't it work?

    If he has sex with you one time "poof" virgin no more (yay).

    Also, you would really be missing quite the opportunity by passing him up.

    He has no sexual experience so basically you get to teach him everything you want him to know. You are able to design your perfect lover out of this unhindered guy. If you are open he will come to you with his questions about sex and how things feel.

    For every guy that wasn't what you wanted you are about to have a guy that you can mold to your specific needs.

    After you get him trained you can just tell him what you want (him in charge, him submissive, whatever floats your boat).

  • I always wondered this same thing. If it'd be better to date a virgin girl.

  • well if you love him give him time and he will want it :D I don't realy know how to answer but yea lol


  • I SEE many strong powers within this virgin.

    I SENSE great things will come out of him

    YOU, and ONLY YOU, Anonymous User, may mold this young boy, into a man.

    Use all skills, knowledge, weapons. Draw on your past experiences.

    Failure to complete your mission, is unacceptable.

    You, TONIGHT, will be known as:


    Hasta la vista, Virgin

  • when I was 24, I had only been with one chick. Then I met Carrie, who was 43. And she was a fine 43 too. Carrie taught me a lot and eventually refered to me as her ``master``. Since then I've shamefully put away well over 75 women.

    The point is, is that everyone is a virgin at some point, and it is more probable that a virgin has sex with someone that isn't first anyway. You could take care of this virgin thing in less then 5 minutes, and then you both won't be if that helps.

    It also depends on what kind of virgin he is. Either he is a chosen virgin, or not. If he chooses to be, then respect it if you're willing to deal with that. But he may also be a low on confidence virgin. If so, let him know, without being to strong ,that you want to f**k. Be careful to be strong as you don't want to scare him.

    • Well let me ask you this, is it possible that a virgin can get too nervous/excited to where he can't.. uh, get up?

  • you are lucky if he even wants sex with a used car.

  • I think it will be cool if he learns with a non-virgin, so when is time for him to get a virgin he knows how to handle it and he is more knowledgeable into to how to appreciate it.

    • Haha gee thanks, I'd like to keep him around for a while not think about him taking someone else's virginity

What Girls Said 1

  • ofcourse it would work, he has to start somewhere, we all start as virgins.

    If like him enough to be patient and help him out until he gets the hang of it than it will work just fine

    pros is that he isn't a guy who has slept around much before getting to you which I like, they're just more pure mind and physically,

    there is no cons unless you find it frustrating that you have to be the one to take control and guide till he gets the hang of it--but if you like him that shouldn't be a con

    and another pro is that once he's done it a tew times you will love it-- hopfully