i recently started talking/dating a very attractive 20 year old guy who I like pretty well. he hadn't even tried to have sex with me which I found odd but comforting. well I just recently found out that it's because he's still a virgin. do you think it would work between a girl who's had.. well experience, and a guy who hasn't had any at all? and what are the pros and cons to this?
23 year old virgin here, telling you that it's perfectly OK for you to go through with this if you like him. If I could choose, I'd rather have a girl who's had it before, as opposed to one who's also a virgin. But it wouldn't really matter to me in the end.
If he has sex with you one time "poof" virgin no more (yay).
Also, you would really be missing quite the opportunity by passing him up.
He has no sexual experience so basically you get to teach him everything you want him to know. You are able to design your perfect lover out of this unhindered guy. If you are open he will come to you with his questions about sex and how things feel.
For every guy that wasn't what you wanted you are about to have a guy that you can mold to your specific needs.
After you get him trained you can just tell him what you want (him in charge, him submissive, whatever floats your boat).
when I was 24, I had only been with one chick. Then I met Carrie, who was 43. And she was a fine 43 too. Carrie taught me a lot and eventually refered to me as her ``master``. Since then I've shamefully put away well over 75 women.
The point is, is that everyone is a virgin at some point, and it is more probable that a virgin has sex with someone that isn't first anyway. You could take care of this virgin thing in less then 5 minutes, and then you both won't be if that helps.
It also depends on what kind of virgin he is. Either he is a chosen virgin, or not. If he chooses to be, then respect it if you're willing to deal with that. But he may also be a low on confidence virgin. If so, let him know, without being to strong ,that you want to f**k. Be careful to be strong as you don't want to scare him.