My girlfriend might be pregnant? What should I do if anything?

Me and my girlfriend who is 21 years old are still in college. We have known each other for like 6 months and have a very strong sexually active relationship. She and I are extremely close and on average we would have sex around four times a day. Every time we have sex I would make sure that I wear protection. Last night, when we were well into having sex, she pulled off my condom and got on top of me. At that moment I didn't think much of it, just to make sure I let her know when I am about to cum, so I can pull out. She then started riding me violently. I myself am 6'0" and weigh only 140 lbs, while she is about an inch taller and outweighs me by about 50 lbs. Her body is mostly muscle due to playing volleyball and participating in crossfit and power lifting competitions. But when it was time, I felt the urge to cum, I told her to get of me so I could pull out. She just smiled at me and ignored me and continued riding me while pinning my arms to the bed. I tried to push her off of me, but she just overpowered me, and I ejaculated inside her. Is it very possible that my girlfriend is definitely pregnant? What should I do if anything?
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  • Ah, welcome to Double Standardville.

    If you'd done that to her, you'd be sitting in a cell on rape charges right now. But since you're a man, you being victimized is hilarious to women.

    You can try filing a police report, but you'll just get laughed out of the station. I'd do it anyway, and get copies of everything they write. Then, when they don't do anything about it, you've got a potential lawsuit. Plus if she's pregnant and keeps the kid, and you keep the police reports, it might help you get custody.

    One more reason every man should get a vasectomy as soon as he can. You can't be trapped if you're shooting blanks, but you *can* fuck all you want.

  • So you said NO, she ignored your request and continued while pinning your arms to the bed and overpowering you?

    Reverse the genders and you'd be in jail already...

    • So true...

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  • Well first of all find out if she actually is pregnant, because if she's not all this worrying is not worth it. If she is, then it is a question if she wants to keep it since she is still quite young. And only then you can worry about what happens next. For you I'm sure the scariest scenario is that you'll end up a dad. Well if that happens you have to help and be there for your baby as much as possible. yes you're very young and not ready for this, but if you neglect something like this in any way, it will be a huge regret in the future.
    Best of luck to you, lets hope it's just a big scare

  • This counts as sexual assault , you told her to stop and she didn't , she removed your condom , got on top and overpowered you by holding you down and you couldn't get her off. I'd suggest you get away from her since she makes it clear that she doesn't pay mind when you say no, especially not during sex. Sure there's a possibility but she should definitely get tested. Legally, the law isn't fair to males when it comes to sexual assault especially when the perpetrator gets pregnant from it , and it'll be a he said she said situation.

  • I'd be more concerned with the fact that she kept going even though you told her to stop and forcefully held you down while you were trying to push her off. That aside, you should have her take a pregnancy test or something and go from there, I mean there isn't much you can do now besides wait and see

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  • Is she on any hormonal birth control?

    • Also what she did to you was very wrong and I want to say technically rape.

  • She basically raped you... You do know that right?