Why are girls insecure about their breasts?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand.I have seen quite a few questions on here by girls who rant on about hating their big sagging boobs(which is normal for big breasts) and their big areolas.I don't understand it.I have never seen a Q on here from a guy who complains about his girlfriends saggy breasts or big areolas.Why would girls be insecure about them?A chick may not like her,but do girls honestly think there will be no guy who doesn't want to lick,suck,or play with her breasts because they sag or have big areolas?Why?

[eithyy]

Girls don't like their breasts for many reasons.

1. They're worried their breasts sag, or are strangely shaped or abnormal looking in some way.

2. They're worried their size is too big/small for a boyfriend to enjoy much. For example I'm constantly worried about my boyfriends opinion of my tiny 32As.

3. They think breasts get in the way and are a nuisance...because they generally are.

4. Maybe they're worried about health issues related to the back; if they're large enough it can cause pain.

Overall though, I think it's mostly about wanting to look good and appealing to a significant other or for yourself. I think they also just worry about image and what other people think of them in that aspect, sort of like how many guys worry about penis size and the like.

[peace-love-couture]

Because girls receive pressure from guys?Where did the term "pepperoni nipple" originate from?A girl,I highly doubt it.

I have complained on here,not through questions but on girls who have similar concerns questions if that makes sense.I'm a 36D and my breasts sag and I have big areolas and it sucks.I'm 16 so plastic surgery at this point isn't an option,but I would like to get an areola reduction and breast lift.I hate my breasts,they're not perky which sucks,cause that's what guys like and ehhh,my breasts suck majorly.It's either plastic surgery or I'll never show my boobs to a guy,I would just wear a bra during sex.Plus I would rather not scar him from the horrific view of my boobs ya know

[bether2005]

when your young your boobs are nice and perky and then when they start to sag its just sorta sad. I don't know it makes you feel a little insecure. and as for the areolas I think women that complain about this are also feeling insecure and they think that its not normal.

[Asker]

But these are young girls,I've seen some posting who are 16,others who are 18/19.Who cares,I mean big breasts are gonna sag a little

[Wassup]

I think as long as the girl isn't completely flat chested or her boobs are so big they 35 pounds each (yes there is a girl who has those) then they're completely fine. Although some of my friends tend to be really picky about boobs and it really p*sses me off. Btw I'm an assman anyways. That doesn't mean that I don't find girls boobs attractive though. Every girls gotta unique size and look to them that fits them well. I think when girls go out and get surgery it makes them look ugly sometimes. That's just my opinion. So girls please stop being so insecure because only douche bags won't date or accept you because your boobs.

[selfishstars]

You're right, there aren't many guys on here complaining about his girlfriend's saggy breasts or big areolas, but there are quite a few of them posting because they're insecure about their penis size. I think it's essentially the same thing.

[chiefnavarro]

I like big areolas

[selfishstars]

That is excellent. Thank you for sharing.

[Asker]

I understand.But I think the odds of a girl breaking up with a guy over his penis size is bigger than a guy dumping a chick over her breasts,well a straight guy anyways

[selfishstars]

I'd like to know where you're getting your statistics. I'm not saying that that's not true, but I haven't seen anything to show that it is. Generally if a girl likes a guy, she isn't interested in him for his penis alone. :)

[HumphreyT]

Yes, but even if that were the case I wouldn't even complain about a big areola on a small penis. Wait...wouldn't they be areolos on a guy or would it still be areola.

[selfishstars]

Lol. I'm fairly certain it's an areola whether it's on a guy or a girl. ;)

[HumphreyT]

Thanks, you are the nipple master.

[wildfire5288]

I don't know why the girls with big boobs complain, I always get a little bothered when girls with bigger boobs complain because all they have to do to get attention is show up. I hate my small boobs because I feel like they're just not good enough. They don't fill out clothes, if I've got a baggy sweatshirt on and it's not fitted you can't tell they're there, and while almost everyone I know has had their boobs grow mine look the same as they did in 8th grade. As far as I'm concerned if you have big boobs you should be thankful, not complaining

[HumphreyT]

All boobs are awesome yours are too. Be happy. Do you know what I have to play with? Nothing near as fun or visually pleasing (unless you have a thing for wrinkled fruit in a wet paper bag). So, the next time you get ready for a shower look down and think of me then look up in the mirror and say "You lucky girl.".

[bossman21]

There is nothing wrong with small boobs. Whoever said that there is needs to learn to appreciate their beauty!

[wildfire5288]

If there was nothing wrong with small boobs Hooters would hire girls with small boobs, they'd be on the cover of playboy, the swimsuit issue of sports illustrated, maxim, and victoria's secret would be making bras to make your boobs look two cup sizes smaller and not two cup sizes bigger

[peace-love-couture]

Are you still complaining about small boobs.Hooters prefers to hire blonde white girls with big breasts,playboy,none of those chicks are natural and I don't know any guys who pay attention to playboy other than 60 year old men and Hugh Hefner and Maxim judges more by face and you have to get specific bras to make them look smaller

[wildfire5288]

You have big boobs, you don't know what it's like

[HumphreyT]

Great news there are women with smaller breasts at some Hooters locations, Playboy has several small breasted Playmates of the year. Several Sports Illustrated swimsuit models have no breasts. Maxim also has it's share of small breasted ladies within it's pages and some women tape down their breasts. So, quit hating on your breasts...I'm not :-D

[Asker]

My girlfriend has small breasts and I love them.fun to look at,fun to play with,she sometimes walks around with out a bra(sexy) and she's just petite and sexy:D

[G-Daz]

Im not quite sure what hooters is but... its not really even that common for most guys to look at maxim and victorias secret, honestly I don't really pay much attention to media interpretations of female beauty and neither do a lot of guys. it probably does have some influence though but a lot of guys love small boobs, I like all boobs lol

[wildfire5288]

Bull sh*t, In 21 years I've never had any reason to think that guys actually like small boobs. Every guy I know loves big boobs, I know because they tell me. Small boobs are OK but big boobs are awesome so I'm no too convinced when anyone on here says that they actually like small boobs since guys that I know have made it clear that guys want big boobs but will tolerate small ones if they really like the girl

[G-Daz]

It can't be that bad, were not all just shallow pricks, I doubt every guy you know prefers big boobs, our tastes are a lot more diverse than that. have you seen polls on here its not super size boobs that are always selected as favourite. plenty of guys still select small a as their preference. were not incapable of liking small ones, even so there are more important things to consider than just her t*ts

[wildfire5288]

This website is the only time I've actually even heard guys say that they prefer smaller boobs which is why I'm inclined to think that's complete bull sh*t. I'm much more likely to believe guys I know than random people on the internet and guys I know prefer C's and D's, the only good thing to them about smaller boobs is that the girls they're attached to tend to have less body fat, but it doesn't change the fact that they prefer C's or D's.

[G-Daz]

Fair enough, makes sense I guess but its not that rare to like small ones

[vocalheiress]

hmmmm. I think its all the media hype surrounding big, beautiful, perfect breasts. sure, guys may not be as picky over them as girls are, but girls are the ones dealing with the pressure.

-movies

-clothing ads

-music videos

-porn

boobies in general are often a symbol of femininity and sexiness which is why many girls may seem to obsess over them.

hope that helped =))

[bossman21]

Yeah, but not all guys like big boobs, I personally think they tend to get in the way.

[lv4lv]

Why are some guys insecure about their penises?

[peace-love-couture]

The only difference between breast size and penis size.If a guy has a smaller penis a girl or his girlfriend is expected to over look that,but if a girl has sagging breasts or big areolas or stretch marks on her breasts,it's acceptable and excusable for a guy to leave her

[lv4lv]

I'm pretty sure it's the other way around TBH. -Just saying.

[peace-love-couture]

Mmm I think not