Do all guys get turned on by oral sex?

[CheerPrincess08]

My boyfriend and I have been together 8 and a half months now, we live together and have sex at least 4 nights a week. I don't like girl on top and I feel as if he always does all the work. So here lately I've tried to turn him on by setting the mood with music, candles, full body massages, etc. Then I try giving him head. I've been told I give great head by pretty much everyone who I've given it too, but he is the biggest. When I ask him he says it feels good but when I start touching his body, no matter what part he pulls away and just wants to have sex. He says no matter where I touch him it tickles and turns him off. I have tried using my nails, just my hands, different pressures, etc. I really want to give him head because I really like just pleasing him sometimes. So what could I do? Any suggestions? Or is it possible for him to just not like it?

[gravygirl]

The overwhelming majority like getting blown a lot. There are some guys that don't, but it's pretty rare.

When you say he's ticklish everywhere, do you mean you're touching his body or touching his penis? He could just be very ticklish in a way where you can't really touch anywhere else.

Also I think most guys that don't like receiving oral don't like it because they think the girl is doing something bad that she doesn't want to do. Does he know for sure that you are ok with this and doing it because you like it? He might think there's some weird sense of obligation that makes you think you have to suck him and that might turn him off.

[CheerPrincess08]

No matter where I touch he says it tickles, his arms, legs, stomach, back, even when I go to touch his penis, he never said it was ticklish, he just pulls away every time I touch it. I think he just assumes I don't want too, because I've never came out and said it. But I try a lot, he's only let me once and that's because he was going down on me, which happens frequently. I just want to please him sometimes without him thinking he has to repay me.

[gravygirl]

I think that you have to make him understand that it's ok. Unless you let him know that you want to do it he'll never feel comfortable having you suck his penis.

[Jonny_]

It's possible not to like it, I'm not overly keen on it, it was definitely overrated for me. I find many things awkward about it, I'm not noisy in bed, so I don't know what to do and there is an awkward silence which is distracting, then there is a problem (maybe just personal to me) but I find it hard to finished via head, probably a speed thing or something. Then there is past experiences, I've had girls who were rough, or scraped me with their teeth and that just makes me cringe and tense at the thought of it. So a lot of downsides for me. My new 'girlfriend' (complicated) wants to try it for me, I'm still up in the air of course.

[CheerPrincess08]

Thanks, makes me feel a little better to think about the fact that it doesn't have to be that I'm doing it wrong.

[Jonny_]

No problem, don't worry about it... the girl I'm with at the moment also loves it, she told me quite often she loves doing it, We haven't done it together yet, but she says she wants to and I don't mind if she wants to give it a shot. She told me just to say if it was uncomfortable for me.

[tsorfas]

Listen there is not guy out there that does not like head. Gay or Straight it does not matter. Maybe your boyfriend just respects you like that or really just wants to have sex. Try to do it when he least expects it. Like in the shower or while he is driving ;)

It is a great think that you get pleasure from pleasuring him! LET HIM KNOW!

[CheerPrincess08]

Thanks, it makes me feel good to think about the respect thing. If that is it I can just tell him what I posted on here, about how I like it. It just sounds funny I guess to say I like giving head. Lol.

[DaBuzzman]

That's awesome and you sound like a great girl! I'm ticklish too but I love it all, nails and hands playing, the mood music and candles, and getting head and massages. Maybe he just wants sex and that's it! Did you truly ask him?

[cubicleprisoner]

No, not every guy is crazy about oral sex - I'm one of them. It's great for an appetizer but rarely do I ever climax from head. For me to climax, it takes intercourse, the thrusts and the feel of her vagina is needed for me to cumm. And I've had a lot of girls say "But guys say I'm really good and giving head. Why can't you cum?"

And my response is, if you don't like cornbread, it doesn't matter if you make the cornbread - I'm not going to like it. Hope it helps.