Can't get an erection due to anxiety? HELP?
After she told me that, a few minutes passed and she started doing it again.. problem is she told me she was not feeling it hard and she stopped. The reason why this happened is because I was nervous about the thing she told me.. and from that day I was stressed out that something is wrong with me and that maybe when we have sex I won't be able to finish and turn her off.. After that day we met up a few more times.. The last time we met up she gave me oral again but problem is I lost the erection completely.. and that is the point that I freaked out.. I mean yeah I was nervous about the fact if I could finish or not but this... completely unexpected.. At that point I was dissapointed and sad about that.. my girlfriend was like ''hey it's ok it happens to everyone'' but that couldn't help me at all.. and the most stressing thing is that 10 minutes later after that happened we started making out and I just couldn't have an erection.
And now this is the messed up part.. How is is it possible that I couldn't get an erection? What is wrong with me? I'm really scared that there might be something wrong with me.. I'm 90% sure that the problem is the anxiety but I can't help it.. I don't know what to do.. I'm afraid that the next time we meet I won't be able to have an erection again.. And if this happens again she might get turned off.. and I don't want to lose her because of this thing.. I need to fix it... What do you think?
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