Is there such thing as too tight?

lately sex with my husband has been out of this world amazing - and I've been orgasming multiple times each session but he's had to pull out several times because my vagina is clamping down and tightening too hard as I cum and it's hurting him.
Has anyone had this happen before? Is there anything I could try to stop it? I'm definitely wet enough and this has never happened consistently like it has been
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  • You will hear that a guy can get stuck inside a woman. Let me reassure you that that does NOT happen, it's an urban myth.

    Is it normal? It's certainly not abnormal, particularly if you've been doing Kegel exercises.

    My ex would sometimes get so tight during orgasm she would push me out, but I loved the intensity of her orgasms, so it never bothered me.

    There really isn't anything you can, or really should, do anything about it. You're not going to actually injure him, the sensation is just new to him, he'll get used to it. After he gets used to it, he'll just enjoy knowing how intense your orgasms are.

    • There was a case were a guy was doing a dead girl at the morgue and got stuck till the morning when the staff arrived

    • @DavidSHeier I doubt it very much. Point me to the article.

    • back in 68 or 69, sun Sentinel

  • I believe it just goes away after a while, it happened to my girlfriend about 2 months in then stopped after a month or two. We have sex anywhere from a few times a day to every other day. She has the same as you, cumming multiple times a session. It'll go away soon just have him pull out when you cum.

    • I hope so! It kind of takes away from the experience having to pull out every time when I'm in the middle of orgasm. Has she had it again since it went away?

    • Yes it came back a few months later but for less than a month. I think she's learning how to control it though.

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  • its not normal but its also not a bad thing. you just need a little more control with the muscles down there. i can control how tight n how loose to his pleasure. it really helps him a lot when it comes down to it. even after several times of me cummimg just practice your control

    • My control is fine at any other point, its only during orgasm it tightens to the point I can't force it to release. I can release after I orgasm, its while it's happening that I can't. When someone can definitively say they can loosen their vagina muscles WHILE they are orgasming ill take that advice on board.

    • haha you can just relax the rest of your body focus on mostly your legs once your body mustles are relaxed everything else will too.

    • Thanks for your time.

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  • I think he'll ultimately get used to it and come to appreciate what he makes happen for you.

    • There have actually been cases of couples going to the hospital because he got stuck inside her so it is possible for a few couples for things to get that uncomfortably tight.

    • @sedrftvgyhujik yes penis captivus, but its so incredibly rare there have been only 2 confirmed instances in the last 100 years. It is so rare that it is often regarded nowadays as no more than a prurient myth.

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  • Honestly, I didn't know that vaginas actually tighten during the orgasm. I always thought they just widen, but I never thought they could even hurt the penis during the orgasm...

    • They pulse, the muscles contract and release for the duration of the orgasm

  • Sry don't have an answer to that
    But try to relax and enjoy..! he orgasm don't tension up
    Maybe some exercises will help your muscles or help you to control ur contraptions

    Also try sexplantation on YouTube and if u can't find answer on these videos message her she will reply ;) she is expert have a PhD " sexoligist"

  • looool. never heard of such thing. maybe he is too thick. i actualky think you should google it.

  • ease up on the kiegel exercises

  • I've had a partner who was so tight it hurt both of us.

  • There have actually been cases of couples going to the hospital because he got stuck inside her
    so it is possible for a few couples for things to get that uncomfortably tight.

  • I would say penis getting over work everyday by a tight pussy and I ain't joking.

  • nothing to do w/ tightness... it's the clamping action which can be restrictive and uncomfortable. tight implies ---- the entire canal is narrow... not just the entrance (as you're describing)

    • It's not just the entrance, or I would have indicated that in the description. It hurts his entire penis, not the base or my entrance is at the time of my orgasm.

    • the entire length of his penis encounters the clamped area when he thrusts...

    • It may not be the entire length, but the pain isn't restricted to where my entrance is on his shaft. Several times it's been the head of his penis hurting, when he's been fully seated

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  • Sounds amazing, maybe you could try several different positions to see if that changes things up. If he keeps complaining I'd be willing to take over for him... lol

  • that is pretty hot. my preference is for looser women though

  • Sounds awesome lol

  • well, if I can't fit it in or it hurts her too much it's obviously too tight

  • you can use a dildo when u r free with him and practice your clamping down muscles getting more control. Level exercises might help get more control on your vaginal muscles.

    • I have good control over my kegals and pelvic floor - it's an involuntary spasm as I orgasm, not something I can control

    • that's y u require to train yourself with practice. You can use a cucumber or a carrot of as well.. My partner and I enjoy the experience when she...

  • I'll stay inside of you

  • No he just acting like that.

  • Only if it hurts

  • I think it's great.

  • had it happen with one girl i dated, wore my dick raw. only time i could do her with out pain was when she was on her period.

  • I don't think it's a problem - personally I'd you try to change anything it could affect the quality of the sex since it won't be natural

  • i had that recently and it made us even more turned on

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