Do guys mind a 'ugly' vagina?

Question

so when i was going through puberty, one side of my labia minora ( small inner flap of the vagina) 'out grew' so its like 2 times bigger than the other flap. i went to doctors to do smth about it , she said it won't affect sex life, but its just not as decent as a 'normal' looking vagina. i asked if a surgery was possible and i still hvnt got an answer for that yet (working on it ) thing is, do guys mind a weird vagina like this? like its still fuckable but just loose skin on one side, rather uneven. but not pretty lookin.
i have lost a relationship because i told him about this issue, and he left me days later cos he won't want to be with me since i had a ugly vagina, total boner killer.
this gave me the biggest insecurity, I don't know should i do surgery or anything about it. i dont want my boyfrd to be turned off by my vagina.
i mean u can say, if girl has nice tits/ass, pussy weird is fine. but ehh i have like A cups, I don't know about my ass, and fucked up vagina. (what can i offer a guy i was with?)
so main point : does this disturb you men? and if it do the surgery, there are chances of scaingr, will a scar be a turn off ( if u choose 'yes' )

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

Speaking of myself, i do not care about such factor. I would dare to claim most of men wouldn't really consider this an accountable factor to mind.

I firmly suggest you to be yourself. There is no logical reason to mess with your natural health and structure. It only waste your time, money and would potentially put your health at risk. And it does not worth it. Because what is happening is that you are hunted by idiotic social standards and you are emotionally got victimized by unintelligent plastic men who objectifying you by your sexual organ. But you should not care about them because they don't care about you. Those type of people like that boy you talked about, all they want from you is sex. That's the worth they measured you by. While your worth is not by the shape and structure of your private organ. But it's by who you are as a person. Someone who really cares about you. Will accept you the way you are. There are many more right people out there. Just be patient and you will involve with better type of men. This is your natural genetic design and build up. There is nothing wrong with it. And if someone really wants you. This matter would not be a big issue. Because your vulva is not what defines you. There are many more important elements to care about. So do not allow unqualified people influence you negatively. Be yourself, stay who you are, proud of your natural shape and be happy. There is no reason to be concerned. Just be comfortable in your skin. And never change your natural appearance for the unrealistic idiotic demands that you receive.

Plus, let me tell you. There are more massive-straight males like me out there! and what does that mean? i mean ugly vagina doesn't exist! i'm telling you!!!

Just let it go and be happy.

Good Luck.

Markm3212 · Accepted Answer

not quite sure what the answers were supposed to be on the yes no, but no i wouldn't be turned off, i think that you have more of a problem with it than the guys do and telling them shows insecurity. lets face it would a guy know when his penis is inserted, no so whats the problem and as for teh A cups thats you and not plastic like some are so all good there. what us guys want is a confident lady and a good personality. i look for a lady that is up for most things and ready to be my life partner and enjoy the things that i do all teh rest is supperficial

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

What's ugly?  Everyone's is different - there is no normal. Don't let porn overshadow your own beauty honey. The only guys who would ever care are the ones you want to throw back in the ocean anyway

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Guys care very little about the vagina other than wanting to get their fingers and penis into it. Just a little advice for you "There is NO such thing as an ugly vagina! :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First, that is your vulva, not your vagina. The vagina is on the inside of the body. Second, no vulva is ugly. Your labia are prefectly, 100% normal. And beautiful.

jpmoore89 · Answer

Not ugly at all. Its uniquely you.

MrGodKing · Answer

as long as I get my pole greased I'm happy

existing_not_living · Answer

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Part of the beauty of vulvas is that they are all different from each other. I have never seen one that I thought to be "ugy". All beautiful and sexually exciting!

And for the record, my preference is for the ones where the labia minora stick out beyond the labia majora. I like the look a lot more and the extra size gives a guy more to suck on during oral.

The small breasts are actually a plus for me, also. So you are a definitel positive in sexual appearance!!

Moimaris · Answer

Unfortunately vaginas are forced to look a certain way. But a vagina is not made for the eyes but for the purpose to bare children and to stimulate a man. Also there are a lot of nerve endings down there. When you chop it of it’s the same when a man’s skin is too large. A man would never chop something of so why would a woman do that?

all_hayl · Answer

Don’t worry about your lips. And don’t compare your vagina/vulva with porn stars or anyone else for that matter. If you think you may have an abnormality, have a doctor examine it.
Vulvas are all different. Forget what they show in porn. Do a Google image search for “wall of vagina”. One of the first results should be a non-pornographic image of an art gallery display where they cast the vulvas (with lips both open and closed), penises (soft and erect) and breasts of about 20 people. You’ll see lots of variation. Vulvas coming in different sizes. Penises come in diferentes sizes. Boobs come in different sizes. Stop comparing yourself with other people are just appreciate what you have. Any guy worth having around won’t care.

Porter21 · Answer

It would not bother me at all! My penis curves to the left a bit. So I would hope you would still want to fuck me as I would love to make hot love to you and cum in your hot pussy!

AllieAnswersThings · Answer

There's no such thing as an ugly vagina.

GingerGuy · Answer

Can almost guarantee it's only ugly to you.

TripleAce · Answer

So it's like a mircopenis that's about 1/4 an inch coming down...

RahulTandon · Answer

I have a strong urge to message you but i don't know who you are!

Dargil · Answer

There are some that look like they were sculpted by Michelangelo, You look at the intricate detail. symmetry and overall architecture. Stunning. They give you a heartbeat-skipping flash of emotion combining beauty and desire. I've saved a few of these on the drive. They never lose their appeal. Never seen one in the flesh. Then there are "the rest". All of those, including yours, are well into "good enough". Thanks for the cock-stiffening description, by the way.

mindfreaktony · Answer

noo. a hell no. time of love making we don't see the difference of this minor things. we see the love given by her with which we have sex with each other

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No us guys don't judge a girl on what her vagina looks like.

jacquesvol · Answer

You won't be able to make a career in porn, I suppose. Was that your wish?

TheNotorious · Answer

I don't know it looks weird but i dont vote yes or no im neutral

OfDeath · Answer

It's not that important. When the lights are off who cares. I'm not usually looking at the pussy when I'm fucking anyway

dolemite68 · Answer

we don't care at all we're just happy to get laid

Chadster · Answer

It sounds like a perfectly normal pussy. We like the inner labia to be large so we can suck on it while giving oral, plus the inner labia is connected to the clitoral hood and with large inner labia there's a better chance you'll have less of a problem experiencing orgasm during intercourse as the larger labia will be tugged at by the thrusting penis which in turn makes the clit hood slide up and down on the clit. So enjoy it and quit worrying.