Why would a guy you just met come inside? Knowing you're not on birth control?

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So last night I went home with this guy and he seemed pretty into me. well we have sex the first time with a condom, but then the condom came off...and I told him not to come inside me, and he ended up cumming inside. He knew I was upset, because I expressed it. Anyway we went to bed and the next morning we went at it again, and I told him to pull out and he did. I just don't understand why he would want to come inside me when I specifically said I'm not on bc?!? that's just weird to me? I recently got out of a relationship and my ex would never come inside. what's the deal? does he want me to get pregnant?! I just met him that night? I got plan b right away

spike241 · Accepted Answer

The withdrawal method isn't a safe form of birth control anyway. My old teacher described it to me like this, it's quite funny when you're 14:

John Wayne's in the middle of a battle with some Indians when they come to a forest. He doesn't want to send in all his men in case they get ambushed so he sends in a few at first to check.

It's been along time but that's the basic gist. Precum can contain sperm so there is always a chance of pregnancy even if he doesn't actually come

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Continue playing with fire and you are eventually going to get burnt. If I were you I would suggest keeping a few of those plan B pills handy.

I don't use because either because of the ill effects it can cause. I also love screwing bareback and totally enjoy and encourage my guys to come inside me as I love the feeling and can help me cum.

That blue B pill has been my friend for a long time now!

LatinDancer07 · Accepted Answer

He was only acting on selfish impulses. You honestly shouldn't have had sex with him again, or even continued when the condom 'came off'.  ...also go get an STD test just in case.

AnonymousDude · Accepted Answer

"I got plan b right away"

oh thank jebus!

listen to Carter44, he's basically right

(even as a virgin)

I wouldn't come inside you at all know your not on because jeez.. we all should know what can happen. caught up in sex or not, plan b can fail and is only for a emergency(like this).

I also hear you'll feel sickish for a few days. so yeah, feel better soon =)

Littletad · Accepted Answer

The real question here is, why did you let him? Either way, this guy doesn't have a care in the world. That goes for you too. I'd suggest you'd leave, have an appointment with your doctor, and grab a new bar of soap while you're at it.

l-hedoniste · Answer

Wildly irresponsible. I hope you lost his number.

Jerseyboy84 · Answer

If I were you I wouldn't of let him start again without another condom. Beisde getting pregnant don't forget about all those STD's out there.  He's just a selfish individual.

mf-ibmj · Answer

maybe because he doesn't care !

zagor · Answer

Who thinks when they're screwing?

re-pete · Answer

Honestly, it just feels really good and he probably wasn’t too concerned if he got you pregnant because he barely knew you.

skyrocketbursts · Answer

sounds to be like he does not care for what you want, you should be using condoms anyway

Nice222 · Answer

He just wanted to feel good by cumming in you. Since he just met you he really didn’t care about you. Or what might happen to you.

Carter44 · Answer

Uhh, there are 2 possible reasons here, 1. He was so in to it, he decided to ignore/forgot you asked no to or 2. He's being a douche and marking his territory because he only cares about himself