If you only want to have sex with a man who is really in to you, then you need to wait until you are in a relationship and have started to feel more serious feelings and see he does too, before you have sex.
And, if you have sex with a guy and then feel that you need to avoid having sex until something more comes from him, well, you might as well just stop seeing him because he won't understand that. Once you have sex with a guy and then tell them you want to hold off of sex, well they will think you either don't care for them in bed or are withholding sex to get what you want, and neither situation will inspire them to want more with you.
I personally get what you are saying and I feel for you. He does sound like he solidly likes you and he is not just seeing you for sex. He sounds a bit more like he enjoys what you two have but he isn't dazzling you with affection. You cannot go backwards on having sex but you could go to the wedding with a positive outlook. Weddings can be pretty romantic, speaking from experience and it may bring out feelings in both of you that will improve your feelings. If not, you can reconsider this when you return home. You may decide to avoid the home "hangout" dates and communicate to him that you do not feel good when he has sex and then heads home. See what he has to say.0 0 0 0Thankyou. I know the withholding sex idea is a bad one. I don't want to withhold because I think it will get me what I want, I think I'm scared that he won't want to see me after the wedding and I wanted to prevent myself from further hurt. I guess what I need to do is let go of the worrying and just see what happens.
If he was going to ditch you after the wedding, frankly he would just come up with an excuse to not take you at all. A guy going stag to a wedding isn't awful.
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I think you're reading way too much into this. If he can just come over for sex why would he invite you to a wedding as a date if all he wanted was something he could get easily. I think it sounds like he wants more out of a relationship. Just go and enjoy yourself and if something happens, it does.
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