What do I do if my boyfriend wants to go further but I'm just not ready yet??

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend wants to go further but I don't think I'm ready yet. I don't know how to tell him or what to do.

[Eva8686]

First of all it sounds like your young, so if your honestly not ready don't do anything you not comfortable with! if he really cares about you he'll wait for you too...and don't let him push you to do things your unsure about, at the end you'll just feel used...be honest with him and say, lets slow down a bit, I don't feel that I'm 100% ready...hope this helps...and remember a guy that pushes you to go further than you actually want is selfish!

[azicr]

it's simple just tell him you're not ready and if he cares he will understand-- if he has a probem with that than he doesn't care--you should just talk to him and tell him why you might not feel ready...but it really isn't that complicated if he really cares about you.

[selfishstars]

Just tell him, "I'm not ready to go any further sexually just yet." If he respects your decision, then great. If he doesn't, then maybe it's time to move on because.. do you really want to be with someone who doesn't respect you?

[Mel549]

Just be upfront about it. Tell him how far you're willing to go, and tell him you need more time before you're willing to go any further.

[Anonymous]

OMG what a p**** just do it wanna be a 40 year old virgin?!?!?

[xxxcheerioxxx]

Dumb answer

[Anonymous]

everyone feels like that with the first time just do it or regret it later. guys can only wait do long before they push you to size and cheat to get the needs and wants that ur not giving him

[xxxcheerioxxx]

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