My boyfriend made a rude comment about my boobs!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and have been together for 2 years now and things have been great! Last night we laid in the sofa and I started getting a little frisky :) I started kissing his neck and massaging his penis. He started massaging my breast and said "You know...if you had bigger boobs you would be perfect." ...i was so turned of and embarrassed at this point. I just crawled off and said "Do you not like my boobs? He said "No, no! Not saying that at all but I mean if you had bigger ones I would enjoy it more." I was so embarrassed and I just wanted cry. Is this a problem? I didn't think I was that small! I never knew he had a problem with my boobs. I wear a 36C... She I let it go or should I be mad?

[toulouse]

i would ot be mad, I would be shocked at what an immature moron he is.

1 Just to be bothered by the size of your anything, when he has you, is in itself not very evolved.

2 to TELL you that is idiotic, I mean to let it come out of his mouth.he should have more control.

3 the fact that he does not even get that what he said is totally inappropriate is just dumb beyond belief.

4 he is an ass-hole & does not mind that , which is pathetic.

>> I would probably figure out a way for him to comprehend what a sh*t / idiot he is..

Personally tho, if my boyfriend had that kind of personality,i think I would be totally turned off & leave him.

I can not even imagine kissing a guy after that...but I would not be mad, just loose interest.

[Skyler123]

WOW, he sounds like an asshole... Even when I always made bad remarks about my own body my boyfriend would always say "your butt looks perfect" I would always obsess about how small it was. He NEVER said "if this was smaller" or "if this was bigger"... He's an ass type of guy so it made me feel good when he said things like that. Your boyfriend is obviously a breast kind of guy...a BIG breasted kind of guy. A C-cup is pretty big though. If I were you I would hold off sex for a little while and let him know what he said made you feel very insecure about your body...What an a-hole! >= [

[katiesmuff]

You should have responded with "The Size of my Boobs is in Direct Relationship to Your Penis"

[beenkissed]

Haha, I like this comment

[thebestapple]

Haha, Amen! This is great.

[Zingbat]

He's an idiot. Period.

he should be attracted to you. not boobs. you.

C's? Perfect lady. A C cup is the nationally favored over anything else. Again...he's an idiot.

I sort of agreed with one girl...if he has the nerve to say something this disrespectful...he doesn't deserve you. Be mad by all means...punishment is needed. Hold out. He's wrong..and he needs to get that.

[dtaylor31906]

let it go its not like he is tripping that much over it

he just was stupid haven't you ever said something stupid like you proably wish his penis was bigger or smaller or widder what ever you want but if you ever slipped and told him you would want him to let it go

[azicr]

i would be so mad at him--not appreciating what I have and what he gets to have. Especially since he proclaims I would be almost perfect--what has he to complain about. Besides 36c is not even small--it perfection in itself.

I think it's obvious he like really big boobs and that was so shallow of him.

I would be very mad and that sucks that he had to say that and that he couldn't just be completely happy with what he had, but you know him best and should decide what to do form here on.

Afterall it might have been one lousy comment--hopefuly he won't continue.

Hope you work it out--but first make him feel really bad ;0)

[sexytsigurl]

wow! I would have done exactly what you did. I would have crawled off and been like well f*** you then. No more t*ts for you.. haha

[experiancedinpain]

Let it go, Guys say stupid things all the time. I am sure he knows now to never say that again... If he does, say the same about his penis, it will hit home.

[shay135]

what you should do is just randomly start giving him a bj and then just as he is orgasming, go straight up to his face, smiling and looking all flirty, say "Ya know, if you had a bigger d***, I would have definitly enjoyed that more," and then just back up and leave to the bathroom as if you were going to clean up and if he says anything just yell back "Karma, baby, Karma," lol have fun. wait til he's like forgotten about it or something.

[crazyhippiegirl]

seriously dump the bastard. first off the fact that he said that during an itimate time just shows what's a complete ass and insensitive jerk he is. second the fact that he said it at all shows he doesn't care about ur feelings. and third the fact that he's comparing you and insulting you when you have NOTHING to be ashamed or worried about, shows that he is a d***. Seriously dump the loser and find someone who likes you for you, not some d***wad who wants a plastic boobed bimbo!

[citrush2o]

Yes, you have every right to be mad. He made a self-centered comment based on his personal desires and in turn made an ass out of himself. I'm willing to bet he's no Apollo, so he has no right to critique something like that on you, even if he was he wouldn't. Make sure he knows that things like that are hurtful and not something you'd tolerate from a man you want in his position.

[phoenix23]

i'd be fuming aswell. I don't think he meant to hurt you if you've been in a good relationship, he just didn't word it very well.

im the same size as you and love it, you can be slutty or subtle lol. point out to him that more than a handful is a waste! lol

[martyfellow]

The fact your feelings were hurt makes you mad...but he might have been just joking. Sometimes people think they're being funny when...they aren't!

Don't get too upset about it. He's probably regretting he said that already!

[Butterfly_kisses09]

36C isn't even small. Mine are smaller than that. I would have been mad if my boyfriend told me that. You have a right to be mad but he may not have meant it the way you took it. Idk, talk to him about it. Communication is the only way to solve problems in relationships. Tell him how that comment made you feel so he'll understand why it made you react that way. Because since he's a guy, he probably doesn't even know why it hurt your feelings and embarrassed you.

[kaylajaar10]

Let it go. Everyone has things that they wish were different on their partner. He was just being a guy. No reason to take it to heart. He wasn't saying that he didn't like your breasts, just that he's a breast man, he likes them big. My man loves blondes and I'm brunette. I like built guys but my man is thin. But we love each other, that's all that matters.

[hunnie-bunches]

man I'm sorrry bout that, what an ass girl I wish you were me at that moment! next time you two are fooling aroung, grab his d*** and say damn if only your d*** were a little bigger I might fell it better! just to give him a tatse of his own medicine!

[frankiefrank]

Wait a minute, but is that true?

[xXxShawnaxXx]

im a 38C trust me your boobs are fine. :)

nvm what guys say sometimes its idiotic.. half the time they don't think before they speak so I'm sure he didn't mean to upset or embarrass you.

tell him he hurt your feelings..

[IHateMeganFox]

Let it go, he likes bigger boobs. But obviously he likes you or he wouldn't be with you. Kind of d***ish of him to say but guys are weird like that.

[Cartiphilus]

It was mean for him to say that to you. You would have had every right to bawl from that remark from him. 36C is not small. You do not have a problem with your boobs. I think you should take a long thought whether you want to continue with him and during that thought you should not sleep with him. Make him come crawling back to you.

[OVOXO]

That's not a problem at all! I honestly would have left him. I'm the same size as you at the moment, and I would have done the exact same.

[nom1394]

grab him and say

'you know if you were bigger, I'd be more into it'

yes you should be upset!

if he thinks he could be more into you if you changed

why is he with you?

36C is not small

and it just goes to show how immature he can be -.-'

i'd mention something to him

tell him he upset you

you can't have him saying things like that about you

it's just down right degrading :/ x

[dalila]

I would be really mad...i think you should say well if you had a bigger p***** I would be happier too, just to see what he would feel about it...He should like you as you are...

[downfall7]

he sounds like a moron. who says stuff like that?

[GirlFriday]

In total agreement, there.

[naruto123456]

be EVIL TO HIM HAHAHA...sorry bout that tell him that if he doest like you the way you are then he sould pack up and go!...but that's what I think if you like what I just said then go for it if not then ok...but it is up to you :)

[SportyLove]

Be mad for a while and make him regret it than if he is worth it forgive him.