Why are all girls SO DEMANDING in bed?

Ugh almost every girl I've had sex with was so demanding about how we *did it* "No don't touch me there" "Put your arm here and don't move it" "No I'm not done, put it back in" "Ew your sweating. Get off of me" Girls are SO FREAKING PICKY. I just want you all to know that being demanding in bed is a HUGE turn off. Anyways Guys...Do girls do this to you?
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  • If your girl is only demanding in bed, you have a much better relationship than me. My girl is a vegetarian and doesn't like that I don't eat meat. She likes country music, I hate it.. She loves her mom, and I hate her mom. But, she can demand I put up with/do these things and if I ask even for a glass of water I hear- "you have legs". The best was when we were hooking up the other night, I went down on her for a solid 25 minutes.. she came. When it was time to get my return oral favor.. she didn't want to. So I told her to get out of bed and go sleep on the couch because she was in the doghouse with me. Needless to say, I ended up on the couch. I know she loves me, but I'm getting sick of it.

    • Sorry- she doesn't like that I eat meat. I was typing fast

    • Dude it sounds like she wears the pants...stand up for yourself... or you'll have a long pathetic relationship.

    • Ya, I hate her. Just like Borat hates his wife.

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  • No. Because I would just get up, be so frustrated and yell out, "Fine, do it yourself then!" Get dressed and leave. Either that or "Ok how about I lay on my ass and tell you, what you are doin' isn't good enough!" lol

    I am already hard at work, I don't need someone telling me I'm doing it wrong. No, I'm not doing it wrong, I'm just not doing it your way. It's a two way street. Just let me drive and don't be a back seat driver if you want a ride! You know what I'm sayin'

    • Okay honestly tho, some people just are not sexually compatible and some are just so sexually attracted to each other, you could never be doin it wrong.

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  • ok except for the "Ew you're sweating, get off of me" line, all the others are directions that couples in general use to let their partner know how to get them off and please them right. so honestly man, if you constantly hear that, then its not them, its you. you're obviously not doing what it takes to satisfy them so they keep having to try and direct you if they have any hopes of being satisfied.

  • If you were better maybe you wouldn't need so many directions.. Just an idea. Don't label it as "girls are so freakin picky", because it has nothing to do with the girls. Either learn to please a girl without so many directions, or look somewhere else for a girl.

  • you're right. girls should stop being so demanding in bed by vocalizing what they want. they should just lay back and take it and be glad you're gracing them with your penis.

    • I think u're being a leeetttlle sarcastic..... ;)....lol

    • While I don't agree with men having total control, I do believe in working as a team. Though my girlfriend does like to be dominated a bit lol. In all honestly, instead of throwing it in his face, how about answering his question?

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  • Either you're not very good in bed, or you're dating the wrong kind of girls.

    On the positive side, at least these girls are telling you what they like instead of making you guess?

  • Maybe you're just not very good in bed and they have to tell you what to do if they have any hope of being satisfied

    • Give the guy a break. This isn't a one way street, it 's teamwork. My girlfriend has zero sexual experience buy I don't "call her" on it, we work together. I don't mind direction at all, but be willing to talk about it outside the bedroom, otherwise you're just as bad (or worse) than he is.

  • be better in bed man nobody ever gave me directions. except the first time I didn't know what the hell I was doing. after that I just assumed don't do that or things similar.

  • We are not all picky we just want to be pleased and those are just directions so we can be pleased... the "ew your sweating thing" probably just came from some dumb girls mouth we don't all do that.

  • My guess is, you suck in bed.If it's one girl that is one thing, but several girls giving you complaints and suggestions? Nah, babe- it's you.

    • Give the guy a break. This isn't a one way street, it 's teamwork. My girlfriend has zero sexual experience buy I don't "call her" on it, we work together. I don't mind direction at all, but be willing to talk about it outside the bedroom, otherwise you're just as bad (or worse) than he is.

    • I would give him a break if he wasn't clearly in denial and blaming the women in his life.