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Is it wrong that I think my girlfriend's breasts are unattractive?

She is attractive and I do care about her,and we do have sex,but I'm..I don't think her boobs are attractive...they are big,I can't really tell the difference between sizes but I would guess a D cup,but they aren't perky which is big to me,and the areolas are big and so are the nipples,which I prefer smaller for both.what do I do?
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I can dump her,there's girls with better breasts out there
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I dumped her her.I couldn't deal with it anymore,big areola,big nipple,saggy boobs,big deal breaker and disappointment.Dumped her,she asked why,and I told her why,I had no reason to lie,I had not reason to hide it,there was no reason to
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You need to evaluate your position with in your relationship. If you are with in the dating phase and this is a major obstacle for you, you need to just move on.

    If you are in the going steady phase then might want to decided if she is one you want to build a life with and talk to her about your problem, just make sure you stress it is your problem and not hers.

    There are ways to get around this without surgery ect. Go lingerie shopping and buy lingerie that covers her boobs and support them. Have her keep her bra or corset on while you have sex, you'll find this is kinky and it will feel good to slide your hands around her body with the lingerie on.

    Get something like this link

    • So she should have to wear clothing every time she has sex with him?The rest of her life?

    • I don't know how you can misconstrue my answer as implying the rest of her life she must wear clothing during sex. Many couples love having sex while wearing lingerie, matter of fact lingerie fetishes are very very common. This is a problem that he needs to solve and not her, if she does not like wearing lingerie and no common solution can be found BY HIM for HIS problem then HE needs to leave. Don't argue the feminist point when I clearly am in favor of the girl.

    • First of all,I don't understand why you are so defensive.I'm not even a feminist.I'm a girl who absolutely hates her breasts ok,you obviously have no clue what it is like to have breasts. Anyways,I was simply thinking that wearing lingerie every time they have sex would cost money and eventually it would add up money wise.Or he could simply dump her.Her breast issues aren't going to go away,I can tell you that.It would just be easier

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  • i think porn and most media has made a lot of guys think that all "boobs" are perky with nice looking areolas and nipples. though some women do have these features, the majority of them dont. you're with your girlfriend for the person she is, how she makes you feel (with her shirt on) and not for what's under her bra. if this is truly a turn off for you I guess you could break up with her but be ready for a plethora of disappointment. whatever you do don't tell her about what you expected her breasts to look like as this will only lower her self-esteem and make you look like an a-hole

Most Helpful Girls

  • Dude its your girlfriend what is she don't find your d*** attractive because of the head of the penis...have you ever thought about that all girls and guys come in different shape and sizes being turned off by difference that's a shame you suppose to love her for all of her not dislike her for a flaw that many people have like you probably have a flaw on your body that grosses your girlfriend out but she don't mind it or tell you because she don't want you to be hurt...

  • If you find her breasts unattractive and it is truly a problem to you,then break up with her.Unless she's willing to get a breast lift,areola reduction & nipple reduction,then there's not much you can do than either deal with it or break up with her.And people say guys love all boobs.Can you say fake?Anyways,there's no need for you to lower her self esteem by saying any of this,just break up with her

    • Did it ever occur to you that there might be more to attraction than her t*ts? I wouldn't break up with my girlfriend if I didn't like her boobs- that's a pretty shallow relationship. Also, nobody said that guys like ALL boobs, just that we're generally a lot less picky than the media makes us out to be.

    • I think it's funny that you are so defensive,you aren't a woman and you don't have breasts.If he isn't attracted to her,then there's no point in staying with her.People who say "attraction doesn't matter" are kidding themselves.Guys are picky,I'm just saying people should stop spewing out bs on here acting all pc when girls ask questions about breasts:D Thanks for being defensive though

  • do you mind touching them, because if so break up...that will lead to decreased pleasure for completely.

    but I don't think you should tell her since she cannot do anything I mean she was born that way...if you want her to get surgery break up- its not fair to her.

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  • wonder bras were made in 1935 and make up can make the nipples and areolae appear smaller. find a way to say that without hurting her feelings or just deal with this thing that bugs you.

  • well if your not happy get out now cause its just going to be more painful for the both of you later on if you dont like big breast why would you date a women with big breast.

  • dude she got huge breast be glad . your girlfriend got huge breast . no one is perfect remember that . so just go along with it . judging by the fact that you set your self anonymous you are not perfect either . so do with it

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