Girlfriend and her bikini?

[Anonymous]

A while back I asked a question regarding my girlfriend and a bikini she wanted for this summer so some of you may remember this. Before this summer started my girlfriend kept talking about getting herself a white bikini to wear that would get see through when wet. Well she got it and we have gone swimming twice so far this summer. She has worn it both times. When she first gets out of the water it is very see through. Top and bottom. Can't see everything like you would if she were naked but very very close. She gets so turned on wearing it. I tell her people are looking and can see everything and she says "I know". Now I like the fact of how turned on she gets because I benefit from that but should I worry about her showing herself? Last time we went swimming she actually got back in the water just to get her suit wet again... Should I worry about her?

[Anonymous]

Um so it says you're under 18...I wonder how old she is...if she's under 18 and showing off her body...:/

When I read this I thought "slut", "attention whore", etc...because its true. She's basically letting strangers see her naked...if I were you I would be really bothered ..does she not have respect for herself?! :/ <-- Something to worry about there.

Imagine you are a stranger and you see her in that wet bathing suit. Would you not think she is a slut? Would you not think she is degrading herself? Would you not think that she's easy? People ARE probably thinking this. She's making herself look bad. No pun intended. You get what I mean.

Tell her she does not need to appear [basically] naked to feel and look sexy. There are tons of sexy bikinis out there that cover up all or most of the goods lol. GL.

[Asker]

She is 19

[Sweetescpe13]

Umm honestly. I think you should be worried. Because if she is "committed to you and only you looking at her" then she faiiled at tht. Because she's letting other people look at her and it doesn't bother her..even tho ur there. Honestly...U could do so much better. You could get some1 who respects you (not to show off to other guys obviously like she does with her wet white bathiing suit) and respects you to b the only one who sees tht...sry but she seems kinda slutty to me. gross. Does tht seem like some1 you would wanna take home to mom ? no.

[Asker]

She is actually very good to me and my family does like her. I asked her why she likes doing this and she told me that she is just an exibitionist and that there are now plenty of guys jealous of me.. Her opinion is looking is ok but I'm the only one that gets to touch it...

[Sweetescpe13]

U might wanna get out of this relationship as fast as you can. Be worried. And find a girl who respects herself not to let other guys look. Seriously? I'm telling you this (AS A GIRL) she has no respect for herself and YOU if she's acting like a slut and having people look at her. y you putting up with this?

[Asker]

Well she does treat me good and we have been together almost a year. I do care about her...

[Sweetescpe13]

But she doesn't respect 4 u. If she did..she wouldn't do it. bottom line. end of discussion. seriously dude..u can do BETTER! you can find a sweet, loving, caring girl who respects her body, and respects you! you don't need tht slut

[Sweetescpe13]

Okay I understand you keep defending your GF, but I have a question..If you keep sayin "Yea I know but..blah blah blah " WHAT IS UR QUESTON? Y R You ASKING THIS QUESTION..? Obviously You DONT THINK You SHOULD BE WORRIED...cuz you keep defending her. so go f yourself and have find with ur slut ! we are all trying to help ya ..but wateva! I'm done trying 2 help yaaaaa

[Asker]

Dont know what to think. Hard not to defend her considering how long we have been together.....

[Sweetescpe13]

I understand. I'm sry your getting all of these negative comments and stuff..But were just saying tht when you get hurt, you can't say you didn't expect this or anything, because the prob. was staring you in the face. My advice would be to talk to her, because obviously you don't know what to do. If you need any help, message me and ill try my best!

[AliceMcKay]

Maybe she just like showing off. If it bothers you that much then you should tell her. She might not be necessarily slutty as some people said because she hasn't done anything with the people who look at her, since you the one who is only allowed to touch. Its a little weird, but I don't think you should just break up with her without talking more about it.

[Asker]

Thank you. We have talked about it a lot and I'm sure we will more. It does bother me yet it doesnt. very odd situation. She told me that she does like to just show off.

[AliceMcKay]

Your welcome. Its good that you talk about it, if you didn't then their would be a problem. Some of my friends dress a little "questionably" (high heels, short shorts tank tops) not because they are sluts but because they want to feel good about themselves. I just think that's what your girlfriend is doing.

[Asker]

I think it makes her feel good like you said. maybe it makes her feel better about her body? When we first met she was worried about her boob size but seems she is ok with them now! She is a smaller girl...

[AliceMcKay]

That sounds like what it is. You probably made her feel more confidant about herself. The right guy can make you feel beautiful.

[Asker]

I think she is too! Maybe too confident now though......

[AliceMcKay]

Haha, maybe just a little....

[Alistair]

its a bit slutty... tho its not like if I came across it I wouldn't enjoy it... and you best watch it cause it seems like a good way of gettting raped cause as some people might say she was "asking for it"

[mnman2009]

Congrats your dating a future stripper! The best part is if she needs that much attention, it won't be long before your no the only one she's dating.

good Luck!

[Sweetescpe13]

Lol

[lisa16]

I would worry about her. She seems like an attention whore. There is dressing sexy, and then there is dressing like a slut. I don't think it is normal to dress like that when you are going out with your boyfriend...

[Asker]

She told me that she will only wear that suit with me.

[jordiiieee]

she sounds like a slut ( and take it from a girl she´s not doing it for her slef it to impress otrher guys) so inless you want her to cheat on you tell her to stop weraing it .

[soe11]

No need to be worried.
It is normal. My girlfriend wear mostly.

[Scarecrow13]

I don't think you should worry.

[cathrinn]

yeaaah that's f***ing weird. no offense (A) HAHA

[Anonymous]

Make sure she trims her pubes

[Asker]

She keeps herself smooth not like that should matter

[Anonymous]

I've got a pool. Want my opinion?

[Sweetescpe13]

Oh damn lol

[Asker]

Keep dream'n

[Opinion Owner]

She obviously wants everyone else's opinion, so I just figured I'd ask.

[Asker]

She hasn't said anything about others opinions. ...

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, she wears a SEE THROUGH bikini.. she clearly wants people to look at her.

[Asker]

True but she never has said anything about wondering what people are thinking

[Opinion Owner]

She's a whore in disguise.

[lisa16]

Ouch.. that's harsh....lol!

[xBlossomx]

LOL.

[Sweetescpe13]

The answerer is right tho! As harsh as tht may sound..his girlfriend IS A WHORE. No girl wears a seethrhough bikini...UNLESS SHE IS A WHORE! dude. get out of this relationship. can't you tell..this situation is screaming at u! Just go find somebody else.