Are guys just being nice when they say they like small boobs?

[Anonymous]

Because they say that all the time, but evidence shows otherwise. Whenever a girl is insecure about her big boobs, guys are all over pointing out how big boobs are superior and such. They also stare more at big boobs and seem unable to think when presented with cleavage. Yet if a girl with small boobs walks by they don't stare or anything, they never get excited over celebs with small boobs or anything. Guys just be honest for once, even if it hurts, are you just being nice when you say you prefer small boobs? Or that you like them? I want to hear the truth even if it hurts, may be a good motivator to get the damn surgery already!

[sa230e]

Breasts are a secondary sex characteristic and guys are naturally attracted to them. Bigger ones are simply more obvious. You can see their outline in the way they sort of stretch out a girl's shirt. Smaller one's don't attract the same kind of attention, true. But if girls walked around topless we would be looking at all of their boobs and not just the big ones. The more we can see, the more we can appreciate.

I've personally been attracted to women with smaller boobs and women with large boobs. Boobs just aren't the common denominator when it comes to your attractiveness but women seem to give them more weight than is justified. Whether you're hot or not does not hinge on your cup size. It's a complex composition of many factors weighted according to each guy's taste. It makes no difference whether a girl has large breasts or not if she's unattractive. Similarly, if a girl is attractive it makes no difference whether she has large boobs.

As for the porn stars thing, I guess it may be worth pointing out that male porn stars always seem to be well hung too. Porn is all about the wow factor and the "bigger is better" philosophy. It's often way overdone as well. It is a prevalent attitude in our society, unfortunately. I've always said that how men feel about breast size is comparable to how women feel about penis size. While you ladies would love to have a large one that fills you up perfectly, most could be perfectly satisfied with a smaller one. So it is with us and breasts. And yet because we're not attracted to the same sex, we always have that nagging doubt in the back of our heads.

I have a passionate distaste for people altering their bodies (except in extreme circumstances) if they're healthy. When I read the sentence: " I want to hear the truth even if it hurts, may be a good motivator to get the damn surgery already!", I get a sort of melancholy feeling. It suggests that your body is sub-par and needs to be "augmented". It's almost tragic to me in a way I can't express. What have we come to when girls feel they need to alter their very bodies. It's almost sickening when you think about it in the proper context.

I firmly believe you'd be wise not to gainsay nature. Male attraction is what it is due to thousands of years of evolution, far before water bras and cosmetic surgery. Our tastes were fashioned to draw us to your natural bodies. It wouldn't make sense for men to be attracted to ginormous breasts if most women don't have them and, of course, it isn't true.

It may be hard to believe but you're just going to have to trust us on this one.

[Asker]

Just wanted to point out that most women would freak out if they faced a "monster c*ck" like the ones in porn, I've seen them and they look gross and like they would hurt like hell! Some women may think a bigger penis gives more satisfaction, but SO big? I don't think so, personally I think average is best. But if you say it's similar then it must be and average may be best when it comes to breasts too.

[c_legacy]

my opinion? another girl should start a new question that reads "Do guys actually love big boobs or are they just being polite". LOL! then we will be able to get all those here who are actually being nice and not being honest.
most guys are attracted to big boobs by default so to speak. i personally believe them to be way harder to control and grab putting me in a very uncomfortable situation in bed... but then, some guys are more into cuddling, where they will probably be more comfortable taking a nap on big breasts than on small ones (like with pillows). it all comes down to individual preference and as i said by default guys are set to like big boobs... some exemptions, but overall you get my point. so getting to know a guy and if u really are insecure about your boobs i would advice you find out what he prefers and his experiences with them before taking things anyway.
oh and the surgery thing... some guys will probably say its disgusting but are awing the next girl with insanely huge fake tits. but you wouldn't want a guy who appreciates you only after altering your body, would you?

[peace-love-couture]

Some guys like small breasts,some like big,some like medium,some aren't even boob guys(leg guys,a** guys,leg guys etc)

Big boobs are just more obvious than small boobs,they stick out more.If a girl with small boobs took off her shirt guys would sure as hell stare.

And you should only get breast implants for you,not for what society thinks,not for what guys think.Boobs are obvious in a way,whether big or small.A guy can easily see that a woman has small,big or medium breasts.Guys aren't that stupid,they can tell.If they have a preference for a specific size,then they can steer clear of girls who don't meet those preferences.

some guys DO like small breasts,some guys like medium breasts,some guys like big.Most like them so long as they are there with a nipple and on a female(Not Moobs:((()

I rather have small boobs,I'm a 36D & they aren't perky which I know for guys is a big deal,so it sucks,big boobs do not equal attractive.They some with qualities that a lot of guys dislike,such as big areolas,sagging,not being perky,big nipples(although anyone can have big nipples)

You don't want surgery,if you did you wouldn't need a "motivator" There are guys who could care less about breast size.If you do have surgery though,do it because your breasts size makes you feel insecure.Not because of what you see in porn,not because of what you see in the media(If it were up to the media we would all be a size 0,injected lips,breast implants,butt implants & weave/tracks/extensions with a pound of make-up on)

[peace-love-couture]

Are you going to be a porn star,stripper or model?You know what the funny thing about that that you mentioned....those people are made for entertainment.You do know "gonzo" porn isn't in style anymore right?Nowadays it's all about amateurs,meaning everyday women like yourself.That whole "shyla stylez,jenna jameson,tera patrick[that's her name right?]" stuff is out of style.Models?I thought models have small breasts,well the high end models do like Versace,Gucci etc.

[peace-love-couture]

Honestly,if guys really truly only liked big breasts,the human population would not be as big as it is because women with small breasts would be single forever,live and die alone with no reproduction:D You can only buy so much of the media's bullcrap.Again,media tries to live up to what they think is the hype.if they think a size 0 is the hype,they will glamourize it.If they think blonde hair is the hype,they glamourize it.Teen pregnancy?Glamourized babe

[Asker]

But what about the models in men's magazines and TV shows? They're models too... or in Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, Victoria's Secret Models, etc.

[peace-love-couture]

Ok,Victorias Secret began getting a little pickier about who Models for them because girls who aren't a size 0,6 ft tall with A cups were complaining that they weren't being represented.Notice,the women who model for Sports Illustrated & VS,are curvy.they aren't sticks,they're proportional,and that's generally what guys care about,proportion.Ever noticed the guys in porn?Six back,over 6' tall,big penis's,do women necessarily want that?No,but it's eye candy.Media eye candy are expected to be

[peace-love-couture]

Perfect.They chose to enter those industries,they reap the consequences of harsh criticism if they aren't "perfect" Meaning natural thing such as cellulite,stretch marks,acne,wrinkles,a little thigh or butt jiggle here and there,not being proportionate,those aren't accepted.

[Asker]

It's ok, I'm not a size 0 either. I have big hips, some thigh, cellulite, etc, and small breasts, and I don't feel represented either. I guess no one can win, not even the perfect ones :/

[peace-love-couture]

Nope.Especially because "trends" happen every few years.Years ago,big breasts were "it" even if they were fake.Think Pam Anderson.Then a few years ago,when Beyonce and J.Lo hit their peak,along with Kim Kardashian,big butts became "in." In the 1920's women used to bind their breasts down(flappers) and that was "in" in the 50's when Marilyn Monroe became famous,the hourglass figure became "in" it all changes,there's no reason to go along with society

[wildfire5288]

I completely agree with you...on everything but the surgery part because the only thing guys hate more than small boobs are fake ones. But other than that I feel like guys are always saying they like small boobs and their actions ALWAYS prove otherwise. Guys can tolerate small boobs but they don't like them

[Asker]

If they don't like small boobs nor fake ones, then what can we do? :(

[wildfire5288]

Nothing, girls with small boobs are just screwed when it comes to guys and boobs. We're not gonna get drooled over and always have to hear this, "No really, I like all boobs, even small boobs, that means they'll always be perky," bull sh*t. Or my personal favorite, "You just don't notice the many guys admiring you and your boobs." We just kinda have to tolerate being something they can deal with and not something that they like which I personally can't stand

[Encolpius]

Now you know what it's like to be a guy with a smaller penis.

[bluewingedangel828]

different guys like different thing if you don't like ur boobs there are plenty of workout to plump them up by worrking the muscles underneath I went from an A to a B that way.

[BlueSuede]

I prefer smaller ones honestly. D's and DD's are just...too big =P I mean fake would be the only real deal breaker for me, but personally I like smaller ones. B's are about perfect, but A's and C's are good too =)

[wildfire5288]

C's aren't small

[BlueSuede]

Didn't say they were, just said they were ok =P I still prefer A's or B's to C's, but C's are about the limit. It depends on the girls body type too.

[christan]

C's are small in my book:)

[l-hedoniste]

Here's some honesty: if you refuse to believe the army of guys who like small boobs, don't ask their opinion, don't waste their time.

And *absolutely* do not date one; you'll give him fits. ("You hate my body!" "I love your body!" "No! You hate my body, and you lie to me!" Been there, done that. F*cking sucks.)

[Asker]

It's just hard to believe. Never met a guy who actually prefers small breasts and find big breasts gross. At least not in person. It wasn't until I started visiting sites such as this that I saw how some guys seem to prefer small over large. From personal experience I've only met guys who prefer big ones. No they don't hate small, just that they think bigger is more attractive, my ex included. That's why I ask.

[sota13]

in response to your update: there are a LOT of guys that don't find fake boobs and porn stars attractive. but it's true that there certainly ARE a lot of guys who love big boobs. and you do see a lot of that in the media. but if you look at like indie porn or like suicide girls or add in certain cool mags . . . you'll see a lot of hot no-so-busty women.

[sota13]

gods gods gods honest: I prefer smaller. my gf's are small and I LOVE them. no size is a deal breaker at all.

. . . but it's TOTALLY true that not all guys are into big.

[jcmrq]

I actually like smaller breasts in girls. They are more fun to play with, and cuter. Smaller breasts also tend to be more sensitive, it requires less work to make the owner feel really beautiful things by manipulating them. This responsiveness makes playing with them a lot more fun.

[gotc147]

If boobs are overly large they become hard to manage and that's definitly no fun. I honestly would take a nice, firm B cup over anything else, of course that's me.

Though I'd take ANYTHING over fake boobs, that has got to be my biggest turn off when a girl fakes something about herself, and to go to such lengths to do it!

Of course there are guys out there who like big boobs, there are also guys out there who like completely flat chests, it's all personal preference. The steryotype is just that the bigger the boobs are the better, don't listen to it.

[gotc147]

Regarding your update, it's just more media feeding the steryotype, a lot of people let others do their thinking for them. Form your own opinions and take what is said in the media regarding these things with a grain of salt.

[Tdieseler]

Agreed

[da663r]

those are all fake like the 10 in long and 5 in thick rips girl its all fake and over exaggeration every thing about porn is

[Asker]

But if guys like normal, natural breasts, even natural big breasts for that matter, then why do porn stars and strippers have all fake, big breasts? I mean, most porn is created with men in mind, so the big d*ck thing must also be a male fantasy or something (I mean most women wouldn't like a penis like that, 'cause it'd HURT). So why? I'd take it it's because most guys prefer that body type?

[da663r]

No ands its also that most guys will never get with the porn star and 1 out of a thousand chance of getting a stripper and its probably because the manager or producer is a sick old horny bastard and I love shy smaller girls but I also like girls with boobs but not 2 big maby a c cup

[da663r]

honestly I love smaller ones

[complicated89]

it depends on the guy... bottom line...

[that_juggalo_beans]

some guys really do prefer smaller boobs. I don't like huge boobs, but I don't like small personally. but, I would rather go for someone with small real boobs, then fake big ones.

[Anonymous]

I can be honest when I say the size of a girls boobs isn't that big of a deal to me. Really depending on a girls body type not all girls look good with big boobs. Sometimes it fits but really I think it really counts on how they fit to your body.

[Anonymous]

everyone has a preference...some like big because of the feeling (pillows) but when they come out the bra, they flop down to the knees, some like small because they are perky..some like silicone because they SEEM perfect...different guys different likes...i personally just prefer the boobs to be proportional to the girl..no fat girls with grapes and no skinny girls with melons...

[Anonymous]

I dislike large boobs and I dislike flat chests. I prefer B cups. I guess that qualifies as "small" so No they aren't just being nice. I like girls that are fit with smaller breasts and a nice ass than girls that are average with big breasts.