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How to drive him crazy in bed?

I requested a sex date with my crush through email, and I just got a response from him. He was really turned on by my request I was very forward with him about it and as I mentioned before I am very, very sexually attracted to him. So, we setup a Sex date for Friday night. It will be our first time! I know, It's a bit crazy, but I am single and I have my needs. I have also mentioned before that our 3rd date wasn't all that great, but I was wondering, can I turn this back around on Friday night? What should I do to turn the tables on my favor? I want to do him soo good! Is it possible to make him like me? I don't want him to be like."Thanks, for making me "cum", bye!" -That would sorta suck! This was my previous post: Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29) Category: Sexuality OK, Guys! I did the craziest thing to my crush tonight. We have gone out a total of 3 times and our last date wasn't all that great.and I doubt we will have a 4th date. However, I am very sexually attracted to him, and we haven't had sex. So, I sent him an email tonight saying, "Lets skip all that dinner, drinks and the rest of the bullshit -and lets go straight to the deed! you want me, and I want you. Just one night, even we if never see each other after that again!" What will he think of this? Should I regret what I did?
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  • well, you can drive him crazy doing something like this:

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

  • I read your previous post and your email to him signifies that you ONLY want to have sex with him and that's it. Now you want more then this which will confused the guy. He's thinking that he's going to get some on Friday and if all goes well then he might want more but all it will be is a sexual relationship. Very few relationships that start off based on sex actually develop into an actual relationship so you might be the one that gets crushed in the end.

    So what I would do is to go on as planned for Friday since you've clearly expressed that you are sexually attractive to him then ask if this can be a continuous thing. Either way your going to feel used because you like him. Fuck buddies are great but your going to break the number one rule and that is to never fall for them. So be prepared to have him put you on his booty call list because you've put the ball in his court. If anything you can try the "hard to get" number but he's going to have you. You can try teasing him but that never works out great for both parties. I just hope it's not one of those dates where one goes to one's house and then just f***s and leaves at least let him take you out to eat and if the sex wasn't great at least you got a free meal

    You made a bold move and he's expecting you have something great in store for him. Chocolate is great, costumes are good but you should be the one in charge not him that way he will at least see you as a strong person. Good luck

  • one, you shouldn't have sex with a guy just because you think it is what he wants, because at the end of it all your feeling are going to change and his too.

    it is cool if you doing a one night stand but if you think you are going to get involved don't even do it, because even you said "if we never see each other again". you are giving a lead that it is a one night stand so he is thinking that he is going to get a "WAMBAM THANK YOU MAM" and if that's not what you planned that's what you are in for.

    "Thanks, for making me "cum", bye!"<---- that's basically what you are going to get

    one night stand are not a good ideal unless your committed to forget. if you doing it to try to rekindle something it's not going to work it is just an open opportunity.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, it sorta sounds like he was turned on by you initiating sex with him, so he will probably be even more turned on, if, when you're having sex, you take the lead. In other words, be kind of aggressive with him. Push him up against the wall (if you want to), take his clothes off, go down on him (if you want to), just take the lead in general. Ask him what his fantasies are and try to fulfill some of them. Tease the heck out of him. Nibble on his earlobe, run your teeth over his neck, chest and nipples. Tease his cock until he's begging for you. Nibble the inside of his thighs. Put whipped cream on his body and lick it off. Cover his dick in whipped cream and put a cherry on top. Tell him it's your desert but that you can't have it until you've "eaten" the rest of your dinner! These are just some ideas. But, like I said, it sounds like he was turned on because you initiated the whole thing, so that's probably your key to pleasing him that night. Tell him that you want to please him, and ask him what's his pleasure. Guaranteed, you will have one happy, hot-to-trot stud banging you that night! Good luck! :)

  • I think you have already set yourself up to be a booty call. If this is all that you want out of the relationship then go for it. If you are wanting something more out of this, don't get your hopes up. Most guys are into the hunt. They like to hunt until they catch and then they lose all interest. Personally I think that once he is done with the hunt, he will put you into his booty call list, especially if you last date didn't go so well. This would be a strictly sexual relationship, and from my previous experiences they don't last. Good Luck

    • I'll ask you the same question: What if I ignore him, just a little, after we do it? Will that work?

    • Will that work for what? I am not sure what you are asking. You are still going to come across as a booty call. Again if you are looking for a one night stand to meet your sexual needs then go for it, if you want a relationship off of this then I wouldn't hold my breath.

    • An addendum: What matters is what happens BEFORE sex, not after. Send him mixed signals after sex, and he's just bound to get confused about your real intentions, but all he cares about is that he got easy sex.

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  • If you go into this with high hopes then you're just going to come crashing down. If you just want to keep it casual, then you'll have fun, and so will he.

    I have heard of a 'booty call' turning the tables but it took her two years, and I'm not so sure that guy had many options to begin with.

    Ignoring him may or may not work. It may get him curious, and he might pry into what's going on with you, or he may come away from saying "COOL! This chick knows the rules!"

    Don't hold your breath.

  • Well Sugar,

    Here is the rundown on guys and sex.

    Get yourself some rope or other material, tie your boy down and tease the heck out of him.

    Get yourself some high heel boots and some real risky hot DOM outfit and rule over his body.

    By having him tied up and under your control you are in charge.

    Get yourself a good whip or riding crop and blindfolds, he will not even know what to do with himself when you start doing that.

    And don't be worried about having sex to fast, it is better to find a good sex mate fast and not be married to somebody who has no sex drive.

    I hope this helps a little.

    Dr.S

  • Yeah, that's pretty much the absolute worst thing you can do with a guy.

    You can guarantee he'll be saying' he scored last night, talking himself up to his friends about how he didn't even have to try. He will then eternally hound you to be his f-buddy until you block him.

    • You really think so? So what if we do it, and I then I ignore him a little after that?

    • You always want to make sure that he never thinks he's "got you figured out", because eventually, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Always play hard to get, even if you know he's scoring that night. That way you won't be a booty call girl to him... Though you're already in danger of that if you don't like him but want to have sex with him.

  • I'm young and unexperienced in this category, BUT why would you have to have sex with a guy to get him to like you.?

    That just sounds like all maybe you want from each other is sex. Hah, but it's your life and your decision. You know what your limits are and what's right and wrong.

  • what did he say back to you when you suggested that?

    • He said he's been very curious about me. That I am great kisser and he would love to do something with me, but he didn't think I was too interested in him. :-/

  • I don't think you should ever regret anything in life - it's too short. For ideas on how to drive him crazy in bed, check out this article on DateDaily: link

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