Are you still a virgin if you have oral sex?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

In my opinion, virginity is more about the Purity. Sexual purity. But in reality, it's all a technicality.
Technically, it depends on the School of Thought
You could give or receive oral sex and still be considered a virgin even if you're a BJ queen.
You could get fingered, even fisted and still be considered a virgin.
You could do anal sex only and still be considered a virgin (I know someone in this category, I don't agree with this School of thought).
A good number of virgins fall into one or more of these categories.
It's all relative from a technical perspective which is why is stick with virginity based on sexual purity.

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

The definition of virgin is being adulterated over the years, but technically it means "a person who has never had sexual intercourse." Oral sex is not intercourse. So all the people on here claiming the "technically" you no longer are really have no idea of what is correct.

On the other hand having other forms of sex than intercourse may technically leave you a virgin, but not sexually pure, which is what virgin was originally meant to mean. As a for instance, gays who have been having sexual activity for year can "technically" claim to be virgins, but even they will admit that in their own way they are not.

kquis9 · Accepted Answer

Technically if you do anything with the word sex in it then you are not a virgin lol but I guess it depends

truthbeknown · Answer

I believe it is ok to have several types or classifications of "virginity". Like, there is oral virginity, anal virginity, vaginal virginity and same sex virginity and so on. So you have lost your oral virginity, but still maintain your vaginal virginity. I have lost my vaginal virginity and oral, but I am still a gay virgin because I have not had gay sex. Make sense?

DanielleMarie98 · Answer

No, anything that involves penis or vaginal insertion is still sex.

anoopranger03 · Answer

yes you are considered virgin if you have or give oral. as long as you don't go for penetration you are virgin.

genericname85 · Answer

i think by some peoples definition you´re not xD but most people define end of virginity as when a dick was inside your vagina.

BobbyC65 · Answer

You'll remain a virgin in'till you'll have a penis enter in your vagina or anal in till then your still a virgin when doing oral on someone weather that's him or her.