Alright guys, I've been battling this for years, I am an elite gymnast and volleyball player, I've been with guys who are insanely disgusted by women with visible abs. Due to my training I don't have the largest boobs, but I have an ass. Most guys I've been with don't like to take me to the beach or places where I will be exposed? meanwhile I'm curvy, not fat at all. What do guys want from us?
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They're intimidated. It takes a firm sense of self to date someone who's much better conditioned (or smarter/richer/more conventionally attractive/more artistically talented/etc.) than you are.
You might want to get good at propping up fragile egos. Or, alternatively, you can date people who are emotionally secure.1