Is it bad that I want to have a threesome with my wife??

So I want a threesome with another guy. I'm not gay or bi I just find threesomes with 2 guys to be really sexy. I mean doesn't it feel good to you girls? That's one reason I want to do it so my wife could feel REALLY GOOD. And also while we are doing it I would like to stop and just watch them have sex. Is that bad?
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  • I have actually had several mmf threesomes with my wife and she loves it as do I, no male contact what so ever. It is not something to jump into lightly though, even though there is no real way to know, you have to think about how you will really feel when he penetrates her and know you are ok with that, also you have to be 100% trusting of your partner, because even though you like me, want this because you want to see her really satisfied and that is your turn on, it is still hard sometimes when you actually see her enjoying sex with another man. It can be a great thing but it can also ruin a relationship so it is not something to be entered into lightly without a lot of thought and discussions before hand about any rules you may want, discuss your feelings before and after and make sure that making your fantasy a reality won't end up costing you your relationship. My wife wants to return the "favor" for me and have me have a ffm threeway with her friend who wants to but it is something I will not do because I know that even though it is something she says she is ok with it would be too much for her, I just know her and know it would hurt her no matter what she says or thinks, and nothing is worth causing her any pain. So that is a "fantasy" of ours that will remain a fantasy because I know that it would hurt our relationship not help it grow.

    It can be very fun and enjoyable but def. not something to enter into lightly without thinking and discussing everything before , also my advice if you do decide to do this the other should be someone you don't know like a craiglist thing or something, esp. the first time its a lot easier on the emotions.

    • There is just something so hot to me about seeing my wife completely satisfied and in ecstasy and I completely trust her in everyway so it works great for us

    • Using a stranger is defiantly good advice.

  • Some guys really have a desire to see their wife or significant other with another man, but be involved/part of the situation. If you are both comfortable with it and are emotionally capable of handling the potential fallout, jealousy, mis-trust, guilt, etc... then go for it and see how it works out. It might be the best thing you guys do or it might really throw you for a curve.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've had a three some with two guys and it was interesting but not that sexy. I was already dating one of them but only he knew the other guy. It was too nervous to relax around a guy I didn't know and couldn't organism. We tried some interesting positions that only a threesome can do but it became clear that the unknown guy was just a third wheel (besides he was too big for comfort). I think if I did know the other man better I would have had mixed feeling and drama would follow. I'm glad to say I tried it before I got married although I don't think I would do it with my husband. Marriages already have to battle normal divides that threaten to break them up. After some years with my husband we have both been awful or unattentive at times. A threesome would inevitably pop up feelings of being left out when we are vulnerable (not just naked but with an other persons feelings or safety issues to consider).

    I've also done a two girls/ one guy but that sucked a lot. However it has helped me come to a conclusion of weather I would go as far as sex if I feel in love with a woman (and I have). NOT EVEN CLOSE! I stick with my husbands genitals thank you very much.

  • Woo-hoo! What a lucky gal! If you find your wife to be hot, of course you are turned on watching her do someone else...its like a porno in 3D, lol. And you are lucky enough to be married to the porn's leading lady. Have fun, be safe, and I hope things don't get complicated after (i.e. cheating, etc.).

  • I think its usually the woman that has that fantasy. I have that, but I doubt I could get my guy to do this... But I don't think I would actually want to do it in real life because if I love my husband, why would I want another guy? But maybe you should discuss this with your wife..

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  • Nah, it might not be the most common fantasy, but there are definitely a lot of people out there who share it.

  • No, I think this is many women's fantasy they'd never dare to act out. It definitely feels empowering, sexually, to be desired by two men at the same time.

  • I sure hope you have run this past her and got the nod!

  • Cuckoldry, right?

  • have you heard of something called JEALOUSY ?

    its not bad, is Fudged up !

  • thats hot but I wouldn't do that in real life. Although it depends what type of relationship you and your wife have. I thought most guys didn't like other guys touching their woman. ...more like an ego thing I guess. well I learned something today.

    • i think that he is joking

  • No, its not. I've had similar fantasies myself about my wife. We haven't tried them out, but as the other folks say, it seems like something not to be entered in lightly.

  • oh my god! you must be the only guy that would ever agree to 2 men and 1 woman threesome. that's f***in awesome. your wife should love you.

    • there are a lot of guys out there that want to only have a MFM threesome with there wife!

    • I would too