I got mad at my girlfriend for being horny? how can I fix what I did?

[alex44]

i got mad at my girlfriend 4 being horny..? how can I fix what I did? She is never in the mood first but 2-day she was and she was really horny and I said geez turn your self off I don't want to and she looked down and I said OK be mad at me and I took off her close and fingered her and she has so much p**** and it made me mad because it was getting all over me and I said just go away until you are turned off. she has not text me or called me what can I do to fix what I did?

[saphirasilverwings]

Um... I don't know... this is kind of a weird situation. You don't have to have sex with her if you're not in the mood, but was it really necessary to get mad at her? People can't help it if they're horny. It's unfair to be mad at someone because of a natural bodily function. Just say no, not right now. I think more than apologizing you need to understand that you just don't get mad at people for that kind of thing. She didn't do anything wrong. I know that you realize your mistake and a scolding isn't what you're looking for, but I feel like I need to make sure you understand that the problem isn't just the fact that this is causing a rift between you, it's also the fact that it was out of hand and really sort of odd that you would get angry at her for this, and it shouldn't happen again. (She shouldn't be mad at you when the situation is reversed, either.)

If she wants to have sex again when you don't want to, just say, "No, not now, another time." If she persists, tell her you're serious and she needs to respect your feelings. If she is pressuring you or trying to force you, you have a right to be angry. But if she merely attempts to initiate sex when you don't happen to be in the mood, throwing a tantrum is completely out of line.

The only thing you can really do is apologize. I think it would help if you took responsibility for what happened, even if you don't feel that it was your fault, since as far as I can tell she really did nothing for you to be angry about. If I was your girlfriend I would feel very hurt and rejected, not because you refused to have sex but because of the manner in which you went about it. Keep in mind that she is probably feeling confused and insecure. Explain to her why you were angry and tell her that you know you over reacted. Assure her that you do want to have sex with her but it wasn't the right time.

[Anonymous]

WOW!OMG!i really hope she breaks up with you actually I think she already did.what you said and did was so wrong,i live with my boyfriend and I get horny when he's at work a lot because I tend to miss him and I replay his body in my mind numerous times,when were out in public its much more I want to touch him I talk dirty to him,i get VERY HORNY!maybe she's the same or something like that.you made her feel so unwanted,how could you have said that?well best thing to do is call her tex her tell her you need to talk to her and meet up @ a restaurant or the beach somewhere comforting to her and talk about what happened.you should know her well to finish it well.good luck although honestly you don't deserve it.

[onceuponalesson]

call her. tell her how sorry you were that you didn't mean it of course you love her and you just had a bad day. but that you realise you mustnt take it out on her. and then take her out for dinner to say sorry. make sure she knows how sorry you are and you didn't mean it

[tigerguy]

mate no offence but I think somewhere deep insode of you that you are gay, I'm not saying that as an insult, I'm saying as it is, I've never known or heard a guy get mad over their girlfriend being horny and wanting to have sex with them and the fact that you didn't like the wetness of her and you turned her away definitely sounds like your not attracted to girls and this just proves it

[falconshottiw1425]

okay well I'm with my friends and we all agree tht you should just get a new gf! srry but thts just wht we think

[laksjdhfg]

Well I am with some friends and all the guys say they think you are gay and I agree. Every guy would love that horny or not

[Anonymous]

What? It's hard to understand what you're writing, but I'll just assume it's because your "." key is broken.

Either way, let me get this straight. You got mad at your girl for being horny, but decided to finger her anyway, and then got mad because she was wet? That's ridiculous.

Call her and apologize for being an idiot?

[micgirl]

I agree you should apologize because most likely she will not call or text you anytime soon because no one likes to be rejected especially by their own bf.