Should after your first time getting fingered should hurt?

My boyfriend fingered me for the first time and it was my first time. He done it to Otha females before 2 times. Now when I have to pee it hurts everytime. I'ma virgin but I fingered myself before and it never hurt afterwards. He was rough too. So I don't know if this suppose to happened.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You got a bladder infection go to your doctor. Don't think oh I'll be okay this'll pass. Bladder infections can lead to kidney infections ans blood infections which can intimately kill you. To avoid this happening in the future always go to the washroom after sex even if it's just a finger going inside of you. In case of an infection happening in the future please keep in mind that you can if caught early enough use a natural remedy which this is gonna sound gross but coat your region in non flavored yogurt. Surprisingly this does stop the infection if caught early enough.

  • It should not hurt. Maybe he was far too rough or you were not wet enough when he fingered you Inside the vagina, he could have sharp edges at his nails. Or you have some kind of infection that's called honeymoon disease.
    Drink lots of water, don't touch yourself there for a few days and when it still hurts in a few days consult a doctor.

  • If he went too fast and you didn't have a chance to get wet first, it probably would hurt. he needs to slow down, be gentle and help make you comfortable, relaxed, turned on. If he can't do that or won't, reconsider letting him try anything with you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not that it SHOULD hurt but it can, particularly if the guy is too rough (as you've said) or his fingernails were not very well kept (too long and/or jagged).

    It shouldn't need to be the case that it hurts and you and him should try and avoid a repeat of it hurting. He needs to be more careful down there.

  • He was too rough on you. It is nit like the pron movies he watches. Soow and teach him how you do it. Some (most) young guys need and appreciate some instruction.

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  • 'he was rough'

    tell him to be gentle, if he tears your skin of course it will hurt. and you can get an infection.

    its your body not his. control it.

  • I've been having all kinds of sex for 3 years straight now and it hurts to pee after every single time. I think it has to do with friction against your urethra (pee hole). goes away after a few pees and completely okay :)

  • being rough could of hurt you also if he had dirty finger aswell

  • maybe you have an infection

  • Yeah unless you have masturbated before.

  • That's a danger. He has probably given your herpes.

  • his hands were probably not clean and not you have a infection.

  • no, it should not hurt. you probably didn't do enough foreplay before hand

  • Yeah these two guys fingered me and they cut me inside!!