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I'm so horny I've been crying?

My boyfriend cums too quickly and he makes fun of me when I ask him to give me oral which he's good at. It's like he knows I want it badly so he purposely won't give it to me.

I've been laid out crying under a blanket without him knowing, I'm so horny and I feel frustrated and angry with him because he hasn't satisfied me at all. We had sex earlier and he came in like 30 seconds, it was awful. I don't want to be horrible to him about it because I do love him but it makes me angry and jealous that he gets to cum all the time so he doesn't understand how horrible I'm feeling whilst he's just being selfish, I hate him for it.

I'm really emotional right now and it makes me feel unloved and like he doesn't care but it's like he's just being so fucking lazy and won't bother getting me off whilst I'm sat here, a silent sobbing mess as he's just drifting off to sleep.

I don't want to say to him how bad I'm feeling, because I'll feel like a slut if I turn around to him and just be like "me so horny", it seems pathetic.

What the fuck can I do
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If it truly does frustrate you to the point of tears, that seems to be a sign that this is important to you. Sex can definitely be just sex, but that doesn't seem to be the case for you. Typically thats the truth for most women, and some men who don't openly admit it. To be frustrated that you are literally hiding under the covers, voice that opinion. If he does care he will LISTEN to what you have to say and be respectful of the situation as it seems to be very stressful and important to you. And if he isn't, well... you must ask yourself, "Can I continue on in a relationship like this?" A healthy sex life IS important in happy relationship, not the most important, but how can you be happy if he just can't satisfy you in just about every aspect of you life? I mean, generally, we all sort of make our way towards that one person we want in our life always. If there always going to be there, you should always be happy to have them, with an exception to the "rule" every once and a while.

  • I don't know what makes guys think it's ok to not get your girl off, I don't stop until she has and then I go for it a handful more times after that. I don't know who he thinks he is doing that to you, that's seriously fucked up. You can do one of three things. You can turn him away for the next few times he's trying to have sex with you and then (either in front of him or audibly enough for him to hear it) get yourself off however you do it. You can dump his ass for the fact he can't even last that long, let alone not caring at all about your satisfaction. Or you can cheat on him with someone who's going to get you off. I don't really recommend the last one but it seems that it happens a bit so I thought I'd mention it. Life's too short to be without sexual pleasure, don't spend it with a boy who doesn't know how to be a man in the bedroom.

    • worst comment i have seen all day

Most Helpful Girls

  • being horny does not equal being a slut. it's nothing but natural. if you're comfortable with masturbation, you could try that, or keep trying with your boyfriend. however, when/if he teases you, try and see if it's bc he's nervous (in which, you should avoid sex), or just teasing, in which you should just stare him down and say "I'm serious"until it goes through.

  • Buy a vibrator & fuck yourself with it in front of him. Show him what real female orgasm looks like since he can't get you there. Then take your ass to sleep & sleep like a baby. Make him play with his on dick for a month or so. I bet he would value sex & your needs after not having his met for a little while.

  • Leave him! Honestly. No guy should laugh at you for wanting an orgasm. He is treating you badly and this is not normal in a relationship. Have courage and step up for yourself because he won't make you happy.

    • of corse. a girl making stuff up again. she never said he laughs at her for wanting one. just when she ask for oral

  • Honestly, I think you should just tell him you have needs too and that he isn't fulfilling your needs as a women. and if he won't help you out, deffinately don't help him out. you deserve better than this!

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  • He needs to get you there first, if he isn't willing to, he isn't worth your time or energy.

    • ya because it takes a lot of energy to just lie on your back the whole time

  • Buy a vibrator - they are amazing x Get him to use it on you! x

  • He's a pretty inconsiderate boyfriend. I'd dump him and find someone new who will treat you right and not just think of himself. If you really care for him, then have a very serious talk with him about it. Tell him that you need him to take you seriously because this isn't just nothing, it's becoming a serious problem and issue between you now.

  • drop him and tell him he is pathetic for making you feel unloved no one should ever be this cruel to anyone he deserves to get hit by a bus, or dropped of the side of a cliff for making fun of you. All because you want a real man that can make you feel good about yourself, and satisfy you.

  • Your going to have to find a new man. Some dudes can last other dudes are minute men. He sounds like a grade a douchebag but he's only being like that because your allowing him to. You tell him that he can't fuck you unless he eats you out. He likely won't ever get you off though.

  • that is messed up. to me it screams hey i got mine who gives a damn about yours. you need to find someone who cares about you enough to take care of your desires

  • Your boyfriend is a jerk. And stupid too.

  • You need sit down have a talk with him and tell how important
    it is that you are sexually satisfied, don't be afraid to tell him that
    he's not being fair with you.

  • Either do what a lot of women find they have to do and finish the job yourself.
    Or stop putting up with this shit. You're not a cum bucket just for use. Have some respect for yourself.

  • Have him wear a cockring so he last longer.

  • You need to fuck with someone else, there's nothing wrong about it. Also, let your boyfriend know that he's unable to satisfy you.

  • Break up with him.

  • There's nothing you can do but tell him how you feel. Keeping this to your self will only get you more angry. Trust me

  • You can leave him and find someone, who will BLOW YOUR MIND in the bedroom!
    Trust me, there ARE volunteers! Find one and make him your new boyfriend!

  • in 30 seconds😶😶😶 wtf is wrong here...
    me and my girlfriend have a session of 20-25 min of sex without cuddling and all..
    Well I am a bit confused.
    where I live we don't talk about sex and all too much. So I want to know is my time good , or 30 sec is too early

  • You can man the fuck up and demand your orgasm or no sex (like you're getting any lol). Making fun is not cool. He either changes mentality or time to find someone that can at least try to take you there.

    • She should woman up, not man up :P

    • @Unit1 its a metaphor -.-'

  • He sounds like a real c***, dump the jerk.

  • not satisfied aaaa

  • Make a new rule: He eats you to completion before his dick gets inside you.

  • End the relationship and find a real man that blows your mind in every department of a relationship and especially in the bedroom department

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