he has a porno addiction. he is in love with it and feels more confident with it. I don't see him giving it up soon, so its your choice if you can handle it or not.
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more radical but you can try this if you want...tell him you don't care, and that you support his porn, tell his to stop deleting the history too. Tell him every time, he wants to jack off to some big tittied fox sucking on some girls bean, you´ll happily hop on his member whenever he wants and ride him. It may start to drift into a great way to get himself in the mood for sex and not porno all the time. but once again, I don't think it won't cure his addiction. that's up to you if you can handle it and to what degree0 0 0 0All you can do is ask him to either stop or let it be a couple activity seriously, don't beg because then it makes it seem like he has power and a choice. If he doesn't then give him some more separation, maybe he'll finally realize how much it is hurting you.
1 0 0 0Thank you! how do I do that if he doesn't know that I know he's still watching porn? he lies that he doesn't watch it anymore except with me, and expects that I believe him. he's such a great guy in other ways, so I don't want to just break up(yet). I'm just wondering if the things I mentioned are big red flags that he's going to hurt me or do something worse in the future,or if he's worth holding on to.
It doesn't necessarily mean he will hurt you, for some people porn is an addiction that is difficult to get off even when they have a girlfriend, at the same time though it can be embarrassing for them because guys don't talk about porn, its usually just understood. Don't be afraid to mention it, girls know things that guys will never understand how they found out. Offer your help, but if he isn't willing to accept it then your choice has been made for you.
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0 1Tell him if he doesn't stop now you will probably leave
Thats pretty much the truth right?
Hes got a girlfriend
And he'd rather watch girls he will never meet in his entire life
Than actually have real sex with you
Sound completely idiotic1 0 0 0SO TRUE!!!!!! I'm afraid its an addiction, and that he may not be able to quit cold turkey :-/ he seems to be making efforts (not watching as often....even though he doesn't realize I know that).
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