How soon is too soon to give her oral?

[Anonymous]

First of all I'd prefer if only women answer this one, and second, if you're not 18 + then please skip my question. Thanks. Ok soooo... I love going down women after I've gotten to know them, and have come to the conclusion it's safe to venture south of the border, but how long should I wait before I do it? I don't want to freak her out. I guess what I'm asking is... is it too soon to do it the first time we have sex? Would it freak you out?

[Anonymous]

when a guy gives me oral, it feels much more personal...probably because most guys I know don't really like to do it. so yeah, when a guy goes down on me before sex, it actually makes me more comfortable...like he doesn't just want to bang me and move on. the only time I squirm away from it is when I haven't shaved down there recently and I'm embarrassed of that...

[Asker]

Thank you for leaving a real answer instead of a smart assed comment like some people do

[azicr]

I think it depends on the individual-- for me I think if were comftorble enough to have sex than going down on me wouldn't freak me out as I see having sex or about to have sex as a bigger deal than going down on someone.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's too soon,do talk to her about it first,cause women sometimes aren't prepared or comfortable with it

[Anonymous]

QA, aren't you concerned about STDs? Just a question, I'm not accusing you or anything...Me personally, I'd have to know a girl is clean...VERY clean...and even then it's not really my thing...

[Asker]

Apparently you didn't read the question carefully

[Opinion Owner]

I did read your question carefully. MY question is, how do you KNOW it's safe?

[peace-love-couture]

I don't have to be 18 to know this,but talk to her about it.If you think you're mature enough and comfortable enough to have sex with someone,you should be mature enough and comfortable enough to talk about sex

[Asker]

This isn't about maturity, it's about me trying to find the best way to go about a sensitive subject so maybe try not to leave such smart assed remarks.

[peace-love-couture]

Yes it is about maturity.It isn't a sensitive subject.Someone who thinks they're mature enough to have sex should be mature enough to talk about it.I'm being truthful,if you wanna get butthurt not my problem but I'm simply giving you an answer.Sex will at some point involve communication,asking would help,especially considering not all women enjoy oral sex or are comfortable with it

[Asker]

Go answer my latest question

[peace-love-couture]

Why?

[Asker]

Mwah haa ha

[peace-love-couture]

Weird:P

[musicsweetyy]

wait a while because like most girls said its really personal so make sure she trusts you :)

[Patience4realluv]

I totally agree. Its not about how I feel or any otha female but her. Maybe she doesn't even like being ate out you never know until you ask her. I'm under 18 sorry lol I just couldn't resist =(