Boyfriend is disgusted by big areolas?!?! What Do I Do?!?!

[Anonymous]

We haven't had sex yet,but we have watched porn together about 7 times and he's into amateur so we watch amateur.And there was one woman who had big areola and he kept going on and on about how nasty big areola are and that they look disgusting and how bad they look even on big breasts and hers weren't even big big,they were like the size of...a little bigger than a quarter.I have big boobs,well I'm a D cup and I have big areolas and I feel horrible and mortified because mine are a little over 2 inches and they're dark and I've tried lightening them with bleaching cream for over 5 months but nothing.what do I do?

[Anonymous]

i think if you were to be standing there naked your areolas would be the last thing on your bf's mind lol. But if it still worries you, you should just tell him that he is being picky and that everyone is different. fair enough he is saying this about a girl in porn because he doesn't know her or respect her(she does ameteur porn!), with you it would probably be different because you are in a relationship. If your boyfriend loves you he won't care, but if he does he is honestly the biggest loser and will have a lot of trouble finding anyone if he's that picky about something that silly. Just don't stress bout it, don't let him know it makes you self conscience, if you let him know you feel that way he is more likely to notice it more. Jus be confident :)

[CuriousChick]

I suggest the following:

Watch more pornos with him. Every time you do, comment (no matter how huge the guy is) on how small the penis is, how there's no way a guy with that penis size can really satisfy a woman.

In addition, no matter how toned the guy is, comment on how flabby his abs are, how his arms are disgusting and he needs to work out.

Then, do not have sex with him. Dump him and let him know it's because you realized you could find somebody hotter and better than him.

Seriously, he's dumb.

[hellogoodbye2]

I'd explain to him that it hurts your feelings. I'd tell him about yours and see his reaction. He should be with you because he loves you, if that scares him away, then you didn't need him anyway. Good luck..

[clovisx]

Don't be with him. If he is so shallow that the size of a woman's areolas is enough to turn him off and he'll turn someone down simply for that fact, he's not worth staying with. I wouldn't recommend using bleaching or lightening creams to try to impress someone who probably won't appreciate it.

I would appreciate my body as it was and find someone who loved me for more than my breasts, were I a woman.

[IveGotAQuestion]

First off, don't do anything to them... especially not for some guy.

Second, when it comes down to it he should accept you for who you are. Whoopdy do, so you have some big areolas. If he can't live with that, you might want to reconsider your relationship. It shouldn't be about sex and boob size anyway. His loss, right?

[musicsweetyy]

Wtf, why would someone -1 for that?.......

[IveGotAQuestion]

I have no idea. Someone did a -1 on all of our responses. It's a real sign of "maturity" wouldn't you say?

[Asker]

Woud it make you feel better if I thumb you up since it's so mature to whine over a thumb down?

[IveGotAQuestion]

I didn't complain about and have no problem with someone thumbing me down, so long as it's your true opinion (though I would think it defeats the purpose of you asking the question). But to thumb down everyone here for giving you an answer is what isn't mature, in my opinion. We were just trying to help. Good luck in whatever it is you choose to do.

[Asker]

Sure especially because I've actually gotten an answer.whatever,bye

[tony8832]

I love big areola's ,

[kcjmo]

He's a total f***head.

What amazes me is that there's so many women out there who are hell bent on pleasing asshole guys, when there's so many shy virgins guys who would absolutely treat you right.

[Sugashawtie]

He should like them caus they are yours! Otherwise he should get lost! I'm worried about this now, but I think small aerolas look weird so...

[Sugashawtie]

What's the thumbs down for?

[bubbakong2006]

Big areolas are very sexy but truthfully haven’t really judged a women by her areolas size you either like what she has or you don’t but there’s a lot more than just sex and appearance to a woman

[bubbakong2006]

Well pull yours out and if he don’t like them get rid of him you shouldn’t worry about changing you to please a man big areolas are so sexy and many men will love them especially when it comes to sex or porn you have what would be a dream come true for most men to find

[Zolly99999]

Hopefully you have other parts that are aesthetic pleasing on the eyes.

[Anonymous]

keep the bra on, or turn the lights out, seriously just dump him find someone else who loves them and you...

[Asker]

What if he is determined to see my breasts?I can't convince him to let me keep the bra on

[Makatza]

U don't need to convince him. Sweetie that's your body if u want to keep the bra u R keeping the bra and if u dont want to keep the bra on u dont , see easy pesy. He has no role in making this decision